$100,000 is outragous! What will your title say when your done, HappyBee RN, BSN West Coast, nope, just the RN, BSN. Its your experience and what YOU bring to the table that speaks for you. That, the bridges you don't burn, having certifications in your chosen specialty, those will all go much further.
$100,000 when you add it up after paying for it, will come out to so much more, for something you could have gotten much much cheaper for an equivilant degree. Don't weight yourself down with that much debt. Don't be afraid of the lesser named colleges. Even look at the ADN and transfer to a 4 year institution.
I'm an ADN, working on my RN-BSN online, and I'll pay out probably $3000 a semester. And they are accredited. I also have 4 children to raise with my dh, and in the end, I will be just as competitive.