I was out on a Family medical leave as my father was in ICU with complications with surgery due to cancer. We weren't sure he was going to make it through the night. My nurse manager called me and asked me why I was missing so much work, she then followed with the comment "I thought it was just prostate cancer" Needless to say my father has since passed away from a rare aggressive form of prostate cancer. (Gleason 9, metastatic cancer that spread very fast through his entire body) I nearly lost my faith in healthcare and was looking for other career paths to take. I no longer work on that unit.