You've gotten lots of good answers here. The only thing I can add is that never be rushed into signing anything, your hospiital (?) has a bully mentality and the clerk is a bully, as well as other...
HarryPotter replied to HarryPotter's topic in General Nursing
I think you guys are awesome! Your replies are great. And everyone of you have said something that is true. Remember that we're all in this together. I think that sharing this is important! We can...
No, No. No! You are not to blame. No one deserves to be bullied and being constructive is the way to go. The suggestions of "victim" mentality was a generic one, not to suggest that u are one....
HarryPotter replied to Monkey_Man's topic in Nursing Career
Many antidepressents may have s/e of low libido. Zoloft and Paxil may have that s/e. In terms of drug screens, anti-depressents don't show up on drug screens. Tranquilizers like Xanax and Ativan...
You don't have to be a victim. I choose that part for years, and finally came to grips with what I was getting out of it...here are a few of the things that I found out about myself. I got to blame...
HarryPotter replied to peaceful's topic in Nursing Career
to blend, to "mix it up". Now, in terms of what your question is= blending with your evironment as well as a cooperative blending of all salaries that are in and out of your pay scale. (joke). (guess...
HarryPotter replied to MrsWampthang's topic in General Nursing
Dear Pam: My thoughts are with you and your family. Your messsage was not to long and you have done the right thing. Your story reminded me of the precious last moments with my Mom and Dad as they...
HarryPotter replied to virgoRN's topic in NICU, Neonatal
Hi Virgo: San Diego Rn here. I work for County Mental Health, which is downsizing/budget crisis. I work as a Psychiatric RN in a out-pt. clinic. Children's Hospital has a great reputation. Was...
Why don't u look into Hospice Nursing? Most Hospices have "grieving" specialists, Clergy, RN's, Social Workers, volunteers...doln't know if you need to specialize, but I would think that would be a...
arial black As we all know, hostile workplaces are thriving. Here is how I have handeled it, without getting burned out, stressed out, or sacked. If a co-worker is harassing you: keep a paper trail!...
HarryPotter replied to chelsea32's topic in Holistic
I have had many psychic experiences. I took care of my Dad when he was dying. One night I needed a break, was at my now husbands house, at 1 am I suddenly, out of no where, shot up in bed and said...
Arial Black)xxx(/FONT) Happy Thanksgiving to you all! I am very thankful for my friends, my family, my wonderful sweet dog Pumpkin (a female Austrialian Shepard), the beautiful,sunny day here in San...
HarryPotter replied to Hellllllo Nurse's topic in General Nursing
well..the fact that its a small company doesn't stop u from reporting them to the labor board/better busiiness bureau. and, if u want to go further, if this witch of a supervisor has been going...
I became a Nurse because I like to help people, like many of you have already said. Also because I was raising 3 kids on my own and knew I would always be able to support
HarryPotter replied to Hellllllo Nurse's topic in General Nursing
Man oh man...just read all the posts: So what if u get paid for two weeks...thats not the point...if u were coerced into quitting, that is bully behavior, period. I never thought that bullysatwork.com...
Go to web sites re bullying in the workplace: a good one with many other links is www.bullyonline.com , a good book to read is The Bully at work. Yes, u need to educate yourself about this...
HarryPotter replied to Hellllllo Nurse's topic in General Nursing
God! Have u gone to the website www.bullysatwork? Have u gone to polls about bullying on this site? My advise to u is u need to give a written "exit interview" about this situation. I would also go...
HarryPotter replied to midnitelpn's topic in Psychiatric
Hi there. I have been a psych nurse since 1973. I worked in many a in-patient unit (now in out patient). continue to chart. bring this up in team meeting where the patient MD. is there. Have the...