TriciaJ RN

Psych, Corrections, Med-Surg, Ambulatory

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    Terminated

    It is sad, and it's even sadder when people get hung up on things like who said what to whom. I've known people who were devastated to have been terminated, then gone on to find a better job than the...
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    I've had enough.

    I second all of the above. Please see your doctor and get referrals for further care. Labels don't define you; they put a name to what you're experiencing. Meanwhile, your only goal should be to...
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    Older Doctor doesn't think nurses should be in charge

    I'm not completely against a hierarchical structure; doctors do have more education and responsibility. (Ever had a CNA who wanted to run his own program? Exactly.) However, no one has license to...
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    HELP New grad job dilemma

    If you're really leaning toward the 2nd job offer, you can always try leveling with them. Let them know you have a written job offer from another hospital, and unless hospital #2 can put theirs in...
  5. What other peoples' bodies will happily do might not work for you. I did 2 stints of 12 hour shifts in my whole career; both times when I was being precepted and had to be on my preceptor's schedule....
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    Passive Aggression is Harmful to Your Health

    No, it's not indirect. It's PASSIVE. Eye-rolling requires action. Making a caustic remark is an action. Passive-aggressive is when you DON'T do something that you really should, and the reason for...
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    Passive Aggression is Harmful to Your Health

    I think it would have been helpful to clearly identify what constitutes passive aggressive behaviour. There is a lot of misinformation on the subject, evidenced by the frequent use of the term on...
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    Nursing School Forces Retake of Passed Courses

    I agree with not.done.yet about trying to retake the courses at a different school. I don't know how feasible that would be for you. If your school is pulling shenanigans, then they won't profit...
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    Snowflakes

    I've wondered that myself. The downside of snowflakism is the sense of entitlement and the inability to tolerate feedback. The upside would be the unwillingness to tolerate the perennial crap. The...
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    The End of An Era

    I retired a year ago and stayed on as a temp. However, I did very little temp work and recently resigned altogether. It was a bit hard to let go, but I have no lingering regrets. I plan to keep my...
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    Should I Go Right Into Psychiatric Nursing?

    1. If you use the QUOTE button when responding to a post, we'll know to whom you are responding. 2. This is completely pedantic of me, but please learn the difference between loose/lose and...
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    How can I handle this

    This says it perfectly. Managers should never call anyone in based on someone else's complaint. They set themselves up to be manipulated and then don't understand why they have a morale problem....
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  14. Here's another thing that needs to be considered: When you have a M-F desk job, you can take for granted that you can go to anything. Weddings, funerals, graduations. Bridge club, garden club,...
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    How can I handle this

    If you let everyone pick their own assignment, and you can count on them to make life easy on themselves, then there's a reason the charge nurse does the patient assignments. A nurse can request a...
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    Life's little irritations...

    Actually, my first thought was: Does he have the hots for Pixie? The presence of his wife notwithstanding? And he's a decent guy so he doesn't know how to handle it? And Davey, maybe you need to...
  17. I'm sorry, too, but my first reaction is "Oh, hell no." I graduated in my early 20s, when I had a strong body and high BS tolerance. My career has been good to me, but it cost me a lot, too. I've...
  18. I just can't even get my head around this. I just
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    The Big Chill

    Did she really order the "wrong" size? There may have been method to her madness. You may find yourself re-ordering the same size when they run
  20. There are a lot of factors, and the previous posts have hit on all of them. 1. Yes, the bean-counters think assembly-line "care" is a wonderful thing. If they get sick, themselves, they will find...
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    Extreme nurse burn out need help please

    Exactly. What are they going to do, fire her? Fine. They can deal with wrongful dismissal along with their grievance. Then OP can collect retro pay for days she would have taken off anyway....
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    Holiday Bonus

    4 pc See's candy? The box would be worth more than the
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    Extreme nurse burn out need help please

    How long have you been working at Bottom End of Hell General? From this point you go into survival mode. Use up every nanosecond of time off coming to you. Put in your 2 week notice and no more....
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    questionable IM injection

    He still has 2 arms. It would have been a lot faster to give two 2 ml shots simultaneously than to inject 4 mls of syrup. Also very unlikely that a restrained patient would be receiving a depo...