Anna Flaxis

Anna Flaxis BSN, RN

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  1. Abusive pt/family and nurse with PTSD

    I would keep your questions very general, and not disclose this personal history. At least, not during the interview process. Keep in mind though, that hostile patients and family members are found...
  2. Volunteering to get foot in the door

    I have not been in your shoes, but I have a son in law who is currently deployed in the Middle East, and my daughter has been doing the moving-out-of-the-apartment-on-base and working thing. They...
  3. I'm sure they've received your emails, but who knows if they've been out on vacation, sick leave, or just get so many emails every day that it's hard to keep up! Completing the job application is the...
  4. Constant Vein Blowing?

    I live in a part of the country where the use of CAM modalities is common. While I personally would not choose the Myer Cocktail for myself (and I have migraines, which is one of the things it is...
  5. Old nurse, New BSN, MED ERROR

    You made a mistake. The patient was not harmed. You feel terrible and have learned from your mistake. I'll bet you never make the same mistake
  6. And that is the reality. So, you can keep banging your head against a brick wall by applying for positions you don't have a snowball's chance in heck of getting, or you could set your sights on jobs...
  7. Constant Vein Blowing?

    I think the problem may lie in your choice of intravenous catheter. What have you tried so
  8. It's Tough Out There!

    I know this has been covered extensively, but I've been on a job hunt for a while now, and I have to say it is tough out there!!! At first I was holding out for my "ideal" job. But now I'll be happy...
  9. It's Tough Out There!

    Who are you addressing? I am employed as an RN, have been for six years. The original post was about how difficult it is for even an experienced RN to get their foot in the door, at least in my neck...
  10. Cursed at a patient-fired

    I think there is a distinction between having scheduled meal times in an effort to provide a consistent structure and actively withholding food as a form of punishment (I also think that if a patient...
  11. Take a deep breath. Just study the materials and go to the class. You'll do
  12. Cursed at a patient-fired

    I am not going to be one to dogpile on the OP and call her/him out as some kind of monster. The one episode of swearing was mild, and the OP recognized IN THE MOMENT that it was not okay and owned up...
  13. You must not have studied Bundy too extensively, or you'd know that he didn't make anybody's spidey senses tingle. That's how he worked. Also, the OP did not say the man was elderly, nor did he...
  14. I'm tiny, and I'm certain it'll be the 6 foot tall 300 pound man choking on his steak. I just know it. THAT's why I don't want to be identified as a
  15. ER Doc, "I need Succ!"

    Good thing he didn't ask for Vec. I can picture it now. The nurse is combing the halls for some poor schmoe named Vic. "Hey, anybody seen Vic around here? Vic! Are you Vic? Where's Vic? We need...
  16. Knew it was her

    Agreed.
  17. Bad Job Market? Be a NURSE! (Insert eye roll here)

    My CNA instructor was an 80 year old RN (who was still working, by the way) who got into nursing during the Great Depression in order to support her young children. She got into it for the money. She...
  18. Aren't You just Incredibly Proud?

    Proud? No, not really. Honored. Honored that people trust ME in their most vulnerable moments. Does that mean I think nursing is all rainbows and unicorns? No way. Most days, it's dirty,...
  19. Huh. So you're saying that it's my duty as a human being to be happy to talk to random strangers that invade my privacy? That to do otherwise means I am lacking in compassion? Interesting. I...
  20. Will I ever get accustomed to death?

    Does your employer offer an Employee Assistance
  21. Cursed at a patient-fired

    This is what I had imagined the scenario to be like. Also, couldn't the child have been incontinent because of the conversion
  22. Do you like working weekends? Holidays?

    You guys don't plan out the holiday schedules ahead of time? Who's in charge of the
  23. Do you like working weekends? Holidays?

    I won't martyr myself just so the other nurses will like me. They will like me because I am pleasant and friendly and when I'm at work, I give my best. But I do make my boundaries clear and keep...
  24. On the infection control issue, cracks and crevices in jewelry can harbor bacteria. Also, you cannot adequately get underneath rings and wristwatches to sufficiently remove bacteria. If you do take...
  25. Bad Job Market? Be a NURSE! (Insert eye roll here)

    When I was a CNA, I accepted that one of my essential job functions was to clean incontinent patients. Did I love it? No, but I did recognize what an intimate act of caring for another human being...