Kooky Korky replied to brandy1017's topic in General Nursing
Not at all what she said. Re-read, try to stop being angry and actually try to comprehend what the writer wrote. The way many older nurses grew up is, I see from comments here by the younger crowd...
Kooky Korky replied to brandy1017's topic in General Nursing
I am sorry you feel dirty. I do think I'm compassionate and I am a better judge of my character than you are because you don't know me. Are you being judgmental now toward me? Yes. Vile? No,...
Kooky Korky replied to brandy1017's topic in General Nursing
I don't recall saying certain circumstances might not really be rape. You've told me what you think I said, but I want to know from YOU do you think they deserve to be raped? Simple question. Just...
Kooky Korky replied to brandy1017's topic in General Nursing
At this point in my life, I have about zero sex drive. BPH and low T take their toll. So no, set your mind at ease, Libby, and answer my questions from your previous post. Food and little exercise...
Kooky Korky replied to brandy1017's topic in General Nursing
Some people jumped on me and accused me of caring more about the poor darlings in jail who get raped and not treated than about women who are raped. one commentor said they probably were asking to be...
Kooky Korky replied to brandy1017's topic in General Nursing
I am truly very sorry that you had that awful experience. Most men can control their reaction to a lovely woman who is dressed alluringly and don't take criminal action. Some men can't or choose not...
He works in mysterious ways. Personally, I do wonder sometimes what God is really saying or doing. When things go well, we think He is in our corner. And vice versa. But He makes the rain fall upon...
Kooky Korky replied to brandy1017's topic in General Nursing
it's probably against TOS to knock someone's religion. Even mine. You have no way to know my heart, therefore no basis upon which to label me a FAKE Christian and I have never thumped any
Kooky Korky replied to brandy1017's topic in General Nursing
"Seem" is the key word. I have sympathy for victims, period. The raped men I saw got no treatment at all. And, yes, if they were dead, they'd not need treatment. Maybe they did do some of the...
Kooky Korky replied to brandy1017's topic in General Nursing
They wouldn't be raped in jail if they weren't there, would they? No double standard on this. Do you think raped men in jail should not be treated? At the least be checked for STD's? Offered...
Kooky Korky replied to brandy1017's topic in General Nursing
I don't want to hurt anyone, especially those already in pain. Maybe you can tell me what reasonable precautions against rape include, since intoxication isn't one and visually stimulating men isn't...
Kooky Korky replied to brandy1017's topic in General Nursing
Well, Libby, you have just voiced that there are safety precautions that might reduce one's risk of harm. Watch out for backlash because I got backlash when I said the same thing. Let's here what...
Kooky Korky replied to brandy1017's topic in General Nursing
When did I ever say that some rapes are OK? When did I say "being from a bad neighborhood is the only way to get mugged"? My point was and is that behaving sensibly can help prevent some rapes....
Kooky Korky replied to brandy1017's topic in General Nursing
You are the one who was discussing penalties for Turner and I responded to you. How is that off topic? I know there are problems with the death penalty. But a few months in jail is too little for...
Kooky Korky replied to Ladysin21's topic in Emergency
In working Psych ER, I encountered a pt who had a knife in his boot. The blade was about a foot long and had been missed on initial intake. Fortunately, he was asleep when I encountered him....
Kooky Korky replied to brandy1017's topic in General Nursing
God punished David. He killed the baby born to David and Bathsheba. You reference the Old Testament on rape. That was the Jewish root of Christianity, but Jesus the Christ (Messiah, Savior)and...
Kooky Korky replied to brandy1017's topic in General Nursing
I wasn't asking to be mugged, but I did know the crime rate in that area was higher than in some other areas. I went there anyway. You have equated "bad neighborhood" with "poor people, skin color,...
Kooky Korky replied to brandy1017's topic in General Nursing
Was it Rose Queen who was a victim of sexual molestation at age 8? I can't find the post right now and have to get going, but wanted to address this. I apologize if I am naming the wrong person. You...
Kooky Korky replied to brandy1017's topic in General Nursing
I have also treated rape victims and victims of other bodily assaults, have been an assault victim myself. It is always very painful and very difficult for victims, their loved ones who are with...