VivaLasViejas ASN, RN

LTC, assisted living, med-surg, psych

Once a nurse, always a nurse!

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    Am I supposed to hate my first nursing job??

    I HATED my first nursing job. I'd done my last semester clinicals in what I thought was a sweet little nursing home with acceptable ratios and decent hours. What I got was a job where I had skilled...
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    5/29 This week, I have learned... One year later!!!

    Sheesh, where did that year GO?? I've been reading them all this time, although I don't post often because what little I might have to say has already been said, and better than I might have said it....
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    Self Harm Patients

    How did you find
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    Med pass 55+ residents and med error

    Thank you for clarifying. Made me a little nervous for a minute there.
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    Just Curious... Retirement

    I'm so sorry. Having to retire for medical reasons stinks. I hope you are doing OK considering the circumstances.
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    A Nurse's Hands

    I've been retired for over two years now, but in a rare contemplative moment, here are a few thoughts on what being a nurse meant to me. Lately I've taken to looking at my hands, which appear to have...
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    Med pass 55+ residents and med error

    I disagree with this. You need to be looking at the MAR every time you pass meds because things change all the time. That lady in 103 may just have had new orders written, and Jane Doe might have had...
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    My daughter's arm...

    Sending positive healing energies for your little girl, and for you too.
  9. I've learned that I can survive med changes without losing all the good the previous regimen did. I have successfully reduced one of my hardcore psych meds and nothing awful has happened...in fact,...
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    Unethical?

    This is wrong on a number of levels. For one thing, a nurse is not supposed to have any interest in a patient but a clinical one, and that ends when the pt is discharged. It's worse in psych, if for...
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    Would you consider this experience when hiring a CNA?

    I think you have some very valuable experience there. I would consider you for a CNA position with your volunteer
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    return to work after knee arthroscopy

    I was out three weeks with mine. I shouldn't have gone back as soon as I did because I was a floor nurse at the time, but I healed quickly (and I insisted because I really needed the money). Of...
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    Flowers for Mother's day.

    What do you plan to do for Father's
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    D&C and returning to work.

    Please accept my condolences for your loss. It's one of the worst things a person can ever go through, and you have my sympathies as a mother who has also lost a baby, many years ago. I'm not sure you...
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    debilitating anxiety

    Yes, therapy is certainly warranted in your situation. Life is too short to spend it in the kind of misery you've described here. Please see your primary care provider who can give you a referral to a...
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    Depression and nursing

    I'm wondering if you've ever tried ECT. It's a last resort for treatment-resistant depression, but I've seen it work in a couple of friends who had tried every anti-depressant on the market and...
  17. The month of May brings so many things to celebrate: better weather, May flowers, Mother's Day, Nurses' Week. But on a more sober note, did you know that it's also Mental Health Awareness Month?...
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    May Is Mental Health Awareness Month

    Thanks everyone for keeping an open mind about mental health issues. It's gratifying to see the number of responses, even if some are negative. That means we have an open dialogue and are not afraid...
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    Anxiety and Ativan

    Hello, and Welcome to Allnurses! While we cannot give you any type of medical advice per the Terms of Service, I would suggest finding a counselor or therapist to help you manage your anxiety better....
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    May Is Mental Health Awareness Month

    Being treated successfully is a wonderful thing indeed. It's another thing entirely when you go to a new provider who doesn't know anything about you, and the first thing they want to talk about is...
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    May Is Mental Health Awareness Month

    I loved Patty Duke. She was talking about bipolar disorder and mental health long before anyone else did, which took a lot of courage. The stigma isn't good now, but it was much worse back then....
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    I'm Done With Nursing.

    I can tell you "what if": You probably won't get hired. Nursing skills don't translate well to most non-nursing jobs, and you will hear time after time that you are overqualified, whether it be...
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    3 Big Issues?

    I thought Obamacare was supposed to fix that by providing more people with health insurance so they didn't have to go to the ER for
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    May Is Mental Health Awareness Month

    I am reminded of Tom Cruise and his diatribes against psychiatry and so-called Big Pharma. What he and so many others don't realize is that these diseases are not only real, but they require...