VivaLasViejas ASN, RN

LTC, assisted living, med-surg, psych

Once a nurse, always a nurse!

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    Tell on yourself, if you dare...

    I once destroyed a patient room within five minutes of starting my shift. They were two elderly women, both alert and oriented, and I began a pleasant conversation with them as I prepared meds. (This...
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    When do you throw in the towel and call it a wrap?

    I agree with TheCommuter. You've put your all into working at this facility and you owe them no loyalty. They've treated you like crap. I say take the vacation and let the chips fall where they may;...
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    Any nurses with mental illness?

    See, this is where misconceptions and stigma arise. Bipolar, schizophrenia etc. are all biologically based. Mental illnesses are nothing more and nothing less than brain disorders, meaning simply that...
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    Corporate took over my facility...

    Wow. Those ratios are insane. In my state, the CNA-to-resident ratio is 1:7 on days, 1:9.5 on evenings, and 1:15 on nights. Nurses, however, can have up to 35 on days and as many as 60 at night, and...
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    Nurse in Recovery

    Are you in a monitoring program? If not, I don't see any reason why you should disclose your recovery to a potential employer. (Obviously, if you are in one, you have to share that information.)...
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    Any nurses with mental illness?

    Hello there, and welcome to Allnurses! I have bipolar I and anxiety disorders, and to be honest I suffered greatly working in a hospital environment. I wouldn't recommend it to anyone with mental...
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    New job, "mandatory class / training" but no pay

    As I said in the above mentioned thread, I would run, not walk, away from this job. It is illegal for them not to pay for mandatory training. And think about this: if they'll pull this trick, what...
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    ADHD with or with out Meds?

    It depends on how severe your ADHD is, and how you work with it. Are you able to focus when you need to? Can you manage multiple competing priorities? If you can do this without medication, you are a...
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    Nursing with anxiety

    I am a retired nurse who battled bipolar and anxiety disorders during my career. Needless to say, I had to be on meds and go to therapy, and for the most part it worked for a number of years. It...
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    Help. No pay for orientation and buy their uniform?

    I would run, not walk, away from this "opportunity". You can do better
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    Just Curious... Retirement

    What was the reason you retired, how old were you, and what (if anything) are you doing today? I have health problems that basically forced me to retire at age 55. I was hoping to make it till 70, but...
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    Weight loss for nurses

    I have lost 70 lbs. since my husband died last summer. I'm still not sure what caused it other than the initial loss of appetite in the early days after his passing, but it's gone on for nine months...
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    ANA New Membership: Join or shred?

    I disagree with the ANA's agenda, which is very liberal and thus at odds with my world view. It tends to look at nurses as a monolith, which we are not, and their fees are ridiculous. Definitely not...
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    Can I be a nurse with a mental illness?

    I agree with the previous posters. I have bipolar 1 and know how hard it is to maintain stability, even with meds and therapy. You'll want to get on and stay on meds...there should be drug assistance...
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    Most important thing as a student nurse.

    As a preceptor, my favorite students were the ones who sought every opportunity to learn and practice new skills. They were intellectually curious and asked frequent questions, soaking up knowledge...
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    What was your worst shift ever?

    One night I had seven patients who were mostly total care and no aide. Most of the shift went OK until about 0500, but then one needed blood, another got up and fell and gave himself a goose egg on...
  17. I used to work 11A-7P at the hospital. It was widely regarded as a sweet spot because I was able to take care of necessary business early in the morning, and I got home in time to see my kids before...
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    Patient searches

    But they're so thin. I would think they'd break if too much stress was put on
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    How do you feel about being a nurse?

    Yes, I have one regret, and that is being unable to continue nursing. I was basically forced into early retirement at age 55 because I could no longer handle it physically or mentally. I wish I could...
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    The 5 S's - Side Effects of Steroids Mnemonic

    You're thinking about anabolic steroids. As for the OP, there is another side effect that I didn't see mentioned here. Every couple of years or so, I catch a URI that makes my asthma flare out of...
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    Worried about turning in my two weeks

    I agree with previous posters who advised you to have another job in hand before you leave this one. You probably would be better off sticking it out for a year or so to give you the experience that...
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    Patient searches

    Just out of curiosity...what is the deal with iPod/headphone wires? How can people possibly hurt themselves with them? My husband brought me my iPod when I was IP and was told it wasn't allowed...
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    When health fails...

    Thank you for this. It's patients like you that make the job worth all the physical and mental hard work. I hope your health improves to the point where you don't need us.
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    Being friends with residents on Facebook

    Absolutely not. It's a horrible idea that clearly crosses professional
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    Burnout: What Am I Missing?

    Regrettably, nurses can't control what the organization does...only how we respond to it. The crazy staffing ratios and the offloading of other departments' work onto us are unfair and even dangerous,...