Halinja BSN, RN

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  1. LOL, yep that was kind of the reaction I got with my boys
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    Personal references - What do you say?

    It's kind of like charting. Be objective, don't say anything subjective. For instance the issue of being a supervisor. You just say, no, that wasn't my position, my position was XXX. The employer...
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    Alcohol breath nurse........

    I know that smell...my ex was an alcoholic. And what I know about that smell is, it isn't just two or three drinks. And usually it isn't just one day's worth of drinking that gets it to that point....
  4. Wendy79, I don't think the point was that anyone was going to forbid or force anyone. The point was making sure that she fully understood ALL of the circumstances, consequences, and options before...
  5. That's a toughy. Both my older kids are pretty sure they know more than I do...they may even be right, but I've got a little bit of road wear, so sometimes I have the common sense they lack. Sigh. I...
  6. Amen! I have wondered that myself...why DO nursing instructors have to be so hateful? Not all of them are...but WOW the ones that are sure overshadow the ones that aren't. And every time you...
  7. (((Still Riding))) Been there, done that, quite recently. Eventually the project WILL be over. Hang in
  8. Grin... Anticipatory stressing r/t negative comments secondary to allnurses venting m/b by written request to stop complaining. (OP, I'm not making fun of you, I get a kick out of the whole nursing...
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    Anyone else discouraged?

    This may sound discouraging...but remember, it isn't the grade that matters. Its passing. Do your best in clinicals, try and see how what you are learning applies to real life situations in the...
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    Favorite clinical instructor....and why?

    My very first clinical instructor was the hard one, the one who NEVER gave an A. Well, she really didn't, but I learned just loads from her. Others who had an easier ride didn't learn much at all...
  11. Everyone's experience is different. But I love it that I have somewhere I can come on a day where it feels like I just won't survive another one like that...and have people tell me they know how I...
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    Advice On Becoming A Nurse in my Forties!

    I wanted to stick in my two cents. I was a stay at home Mom (w/4 kids) too, for years and years. (you can see my age, and guess the years...grin) I'll be graduating this spring. And one thing...
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    Nursing School Blues??

    :yeahthat:
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    San Fran - where do you live?

    LOL, thank you!!! After looking at the other link, I was pretty much
  15. I was looking at a couple of jobs that sound really attractive to me, but they are in San Francisco proper. Does anyone here work in SF? If so, where do you live? Is it feasible to live somewhere...
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    "ratios"? and pay in California?

    Beautiful sunny (and somewhat air quality challenged) Kern
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    Best City/Area for New Graduate

    Ouch! Interesting reaction to the responses or lack of them. Maybe the reason people do not respond is that we don't know other people's niches, only our own. So how can we tell you where the 'best'...
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    RN's and the dreaded clinical experience...

    I have to say, I've been lucky, had GREAT clinical instructors. Preceptors? well, some are good, some aren't, and sometimes they are just having a rotten day. As clinicals have progressed, I've...
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    imposter, incompetent or ?

    That is so true! There are definitely different learning styles, yet most 'school' work is taught one way. It may take a little extra time to 'translate' things into your strongest learning style,...
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    Am I Wrong?

    My 77 year old mother had begun to show troubling signs of dementia. I had talked to my Dad about it, and he had talked to their PCP. It was a slow decline and I was feeling so sad that such a sharp...
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    Career Advice - Please Help!

    Its interesting how many people with biology degrees end up in nursing. There are three people in my program with biology degrees. But that isn't what you were asking about! If it were me, I would...
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    imposter, incompetent or ?

    Yup, I felt (still sometimes feel) the same way. I think it has to do with us starting into nursing school later in life. As llg said, we'd moved beyond novice stage in our lives already. And...
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    Is it possible?????????????

    It might depend on how well you tolerate school. For some people new information takes repetition to stick. For some people they read it or hear it once and it sticks. No reflection on anyone, its...
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    pacify or orientate? Alzheimers...

    I just wanted to say how impressed I am with the compassion (and creativity) of so many that have posted in this thread. It makes me feel proud to be entering the field of nursing, and humbles me....
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    "ratios"? and pay in California?

    Okay, I 'fess up. I haven't actually SEEN ratio violations. I was told by someone who has been a CNA in the area hospitals for several years that she had seen it happen a lot. I did take her word...