I find it irritating how passive aggressive some co-workers are when they get mad and when it is attempted to be addressed at the time, and they say “it’s fine” and will not talk about it. I can understand they may be upset, and need a moment. But this running to supervisor or management is ridiculous! I have had this happen to me. I have been accused of not being a team player and hiding. I am a team player, I will help you, but I am not going to do someone else’s job. I do not hide. My co-workers are so loud, I have had to ask them to be more quiet so I can hear when a doctor is giving me orders. But they keep talking. Grr! So I go to a quieter place. When my manager told me that I hide and am not a team player she would not give me examples of this and said it was not her job!!! She said “everyone” was saying when I asked who said those things. I knew this was a lie! There are a handful of people who are cliquish and gossip about everyone and are friends with the immediate nursing supervisor. Walking by her office is a tell tale sign of the “pot stirrers”, who run at every turn.