Ilovenursing3

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1. Is this considered bullying?

   Ilovenursing3 replied to Ilovenursing3's topic in General Nursing

   I asked them if I could resign and they said it was understandable. I really loved working there, but it was so toxic. I start a new job and it seems like a really nice place with a lot of good people. But, you're right it's not good to be randomly q...

2. Is this considered bullying?

   Ilovenursing3 replied to Ilovenursing3's topic in General Nursing

   I am a hands on learner. I can't watch and then do it perfectly. She guide me by showing me, but I think it would have been helpful it I was able to do stuff. Well, I got the insulin down,but she still was annoyed I checked it like three times. She d...

3. Is this considered bullying?

   Ilovenursing3 replied to Ilovenursing3's topic in General Nursing

   Thank you for you're response. Just please don't take my story and think you will ever expiernce anything like this. I have to learn to take a breath and find something to research/learn instead of getting frustrated with someone who is not being ver...

4. Is this considered bullying?

   Ilovenursing3 replied to Ilovenursing3's topic in General Nursing

   Yes, I apologize I didn't want to come across as it was my preceptors fault at all. I was shocked because it was my first time caring for this patient and I would never forgive myself for giving a med to a patient who didn't know what it was. So even...

5. Is this considered bullying?

   Ilovenursing3 replied to Ilovenursing3's topic in General Nursing

   No, she didn't say anything. Just that (my preceptor and the aide) didn't need to get up as they figured I had it under control. Well, I guess I didn't. You sound like a nursing aide that I would love to work with. I can tell you really care about t...

6. Is this considered bullying?

   Ilovenursing3 replied to Ilovenursing3's topic in General Nursing

   No, it's not worth it at all for a patient to fall. I have always said that if I patient falls in my watch, then I failed. God I would be so angry if a patient fell on my shift. It's a lot of paperwork, which obviously I wouldn't mind doing that, but...

7. Is this considered bullying?

   Ilovenursing3 replied to Ilovenursing3's topic in General Nursing

   Yes, you are correct. Its 100% to know what someone is doing wrong in nursing. I would always ask "Did I do everything okay or was there anything that could have been done better?" "What am I doing wrong and what are strengths?" I think a lot of it ...

8. Is this considered bullying?

   Ilovenursing3 replied to Ilovenursing3's topic in General Nursing

   Thank you much appreciated :). She is knowledgeable, but my personal preference is to do my best to be happy :)

9. Is this considered bullying?

   Ilovenursing3 replied to Ilovenursing3's topic in General Nursing

   Thank you for your input. Much appreciated :)

10. Is this considered bullying?

    Ilovenursing3 replied to Ilovenursing3's topic in General Nursing

    I never said she is inadequate. I fully admitted my communication and attitude towards the situation could have been better. I think it's safe to say it's possible you're assuming I'm a know it all and didn't respect her. Human have emotions and I go...

11. Is this considered bullying?

    Ilovenursing3 replied to Ilovenursing3's topic in General Nursing

    Yes, you are very correct. The aide at the nursing station is my preceptors best friend. They both say there and did nothing. I'm not a know it all and think I'm better than anyone, but come on, there is no reason not to say "hey stay in the med room...

12. Is this considered bullying?

    Ilovenursing3 replied to Ilovenursing3's topic in General Nursing

    Thank you for you're reply. I guess I did over react. I did freak out on the inside, but he was educated and we moved on. I was told to document patients refusal, but not about calling the doctor. I would always call a doctor about a patient refusin...

13. Is this considered bullying?

    Ilovenursing3 replied to Ilovenursing3's topic in General Nursing

    Thank you all SO much for taking the time to reply and give advice/input. I think we all have established I need to learn from it and move on. I am not sure if I would have to start a new thread or if I can even ask this kind of question, but I would...

14. Is this considered bullying?

    Ilovenursing3 replied to Ilovenursing3's topic in General Nursing

    You're definitely not overbearing. At first, you put me in my place and I thought about it. It was constructive cristism that helped. My posts are all over the place, so I appreciate the feedback. It is a lot to process, but looking back my response...

15. Is this considered bullying?

    Ilovenursing3 replied to Ilovenursing3's topic in General Nursing

    I remember in nursing school we had an instructor everyone was terrified of. She was fierce, but so knowledgeable. Myself and a couple of other students butted heads with her because we were so frustrated. We kept our composure. As I was assessing a ...