PDN and snow: how do they treat you?

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The US Northeast in having an old fashioned Nor'easter snowstorm tonight. I kind of enjoy the challenge of driving in to work when there's big snows, hurricanes, etc. and I find it interesting how families react to the extra effort. For example, the house I am at tonight, I'm only here because I know I can count on the dad to voluntarily put on some boots and help me shovel my car out in the morning. Last time he wouldn't even let me touch the snow! They thank me every time I leave, whatever the weather, and I get very enthusiastic "thank you's" for coming when there's bad weather.

Then there's the family who didn't ice their sidewalks, left new snow on top of it all, and didn't turn on the porch light for me. Practically pitch black. I nearly fell several times. And forget about a "how are the roads?" or "Thank you for coming".

Then there's the mom who yelled at me when I came through the door after driving through Hurricane Sandy, telling her I should have stayed home and it wasn't safe. No thank you at all. (It was only the third time I worked w that client, so I didn't know her well.) I must also add that she did not call the office to call off my shift, either, if she was so concerned for my safety. Feeling quite indignant, I did not go back to her.

My Thursday client's dad already told me (in anticipation of this Nor'easter) not to try too hard to get in if the snow is still bad. He said safety is the first concern, and he was really nice about it. This makes me just want to help out this family more! ;D To me, genuine concern and thank-you's are the key to making me bend over backwards for people.

My agency is so far fine. I had a minor wreck in the snow, tire blow out, and their first question was if I was okay. The patient I was going to, the family, is very - I can't put my finger on it - but "off". They don't clear a path, there is snow on ice on snow on ice, the stairs down to the apartment are steep and snow and ice covered and a giant bush attacks you as you walk there. Not safe at all. But, I am pretty sure it's going to end eventually because they are pushing for some special charity to help them so the parent can stay home from work. The only reason I push to go to work is because I loose the entire day's pay, which hurts. One storm or two, no big deal. But, I've been hit twice a week every week for the last three weeks. I just can't afford it. The other family is a dream. Hubby cleared my car off, they make sure there is a spot cleared to put my car off the street (the other place I am in the street and I fear the plows will crush my car), and they always are grateful. This past storm, I knew the dad was stuck away on business, so I really wanted to be there for the mom.

Specializes in Home Health (PDN), Camp Nursing.

My agency forgot to cancel me! I drove an hour and change in 17 inches of snow. They were supper cool about it. Show pay x 2! Generally one of my agencies is amazing, they know I don't usually call out so they don't push me. The other agency would want me to come in if I had just amputated my own arm on a meat slicer. It's all about the people at the agency, they make the culture. A good office staff makes a bad agency tolerable, and a so so agency amazing.

Specializes in Geriatrics, Home Health.

We got 8 inches of snow. The town had a parking ban, the street wasn't plowed, and the family wasn't expecting me. I arrived at the house on time, but it took 3 people 30 minutes to get my little car into the driveway.

Specializes in Babies, peds, pain management.

I just lost 2nights shifts because of ice. Snow, rain, tornados I can handle, ice just scares me. I have a long driveway, country roads and several bridges and hills to navigate and ice makes it almost impossible to drive. My agency doesn't like for anyone to call off but they understand and so does the family. Back in January, before a big ice storm was predicted, was scheduled to work 3 hospital shift and 2 PD shifts. I opted to stay in a motel in town for those days. Had a good rate and quiet room and did not miss any work. You do what you have to do.

It's funny, the house that is my least favorite to work at (environment, amenities etc.) shot me a text saying to not come because it was too dangerous, while the house that is my favorite didn't ice the sidewalk or anything... I ended up falling on their sidewalk because it was so slippery (sore for 4 days). I think some people just don't think about it.

Specializes in Peds(PICU, NICU float), PDN, ICU.

Was late due to power outage. I was cussed out and told by a parent that I should have stayed in my car overnight where I have a phone signal. Parent doesn't work and lives off the system. Luckily, my boss was wonderful and said I could leave if the bad behavior by the parent continued. Some people are so ridiculous.

Was late due to power outage. I was cussed out and told by a parent that I should have stayed in my car overnight where I have a phone signal. Parent doesn't work and lives off the system. Luckily, my boss was wonderful and said I could leave if the bad behavior by the parent continued. Some people are so ridiculous.

That is crazy talk! What job would require you to be sooo on call to want you to sleep in your car, and they had adults home!! Crazy talk I tell you.

After I got a ticket for parking on the street, I discussed with the father "our responsibilities" on my coming to work and the parking situation. If I will be snowed in like last year when we got 16+ inches of snow, I might come but as snow builds up, I'm leaving. (They have nine capable adults in this house).

I park in the driveway from now on, as I cant keep up with their ticketing ways on their street. I need a safe surface to walk on and a cleaned out parking space for my car, which is a valuable asset necessary for work. All that said, I come on time, and have only called out three times in a year and a half. Once my son was sent to ER (has cancer), Snow over 16 inches biggest snow storm in the past 5 years, and I had GI issues and rather use my bathroom then someone elses.

I was matter of fact about it, professional and didnt have an 'tude, but stated facts I just told you all, he looked at me, smiled and nodded. The Father agreed. He has held his end of he bargain as so do I.

Reading all these messages, I am blessed I can SOMETIMES reason with this family.

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