My feelings are so hurt about this, but could possibly be overreacting!
So here is what happened: I have been sick with URI since this past Friday, throat so sore I could hardly even swallow my own spit (sorry to be so graphic), coughing my head off, SOB, fever, and my lower back was hurting so bad I could not sit still. After couple of days like that, on antibiotics and getting worse I broke down and went to ER, (where I work).
First off the nurse I had ordered urine preg on me and I have had complete hysterectomy-DUH!! Then I told them I couldn't take Morphine or Lortab so doc said he wasn't sure what to give me for pain since I was allergic to so much stuff. I hardly think 2 things qualifies as so much stuff!! I see them give our frequent flyer drug seekers less of a hassle about getting something for pain as they did me! Finally after getting to point of tears, I got an IM shot for pain. Had pretty significant amount of blood in my urine so they ordered CT with stone protocal-had stone in left kidney. My nurse was one to tell me this which was no big deal, but then she added "o by the way, you have a rt sided soft tissue mass in pelvis that they are unable to identify, so here is prescription for you to come back and have another CT as outpatient with triple contrast". I asked her, "and why are you the one telling me this insead of Dr"? Her reply was "well when you first came in we only had 4 patients, now we are full". "SOOO" was my next response. Maybe I expect too much, but I would think as a nurse that works side by side with this Dr that he could have at least called radiologist and asked for some more specifics, or for sure made sure that I didn't leave ER that night freaked out! I had to hunt Dr down before I left to get him to sign my work excuse and only then did he see how upset I was and said well why don't we just go ahead and order that scan tonight so you won't have to go home worried sick. Why he didn't think enough of me to do that earlier is beyond me!! I mean I already did not feel good, was in a lot of pain and then to hear that just threw me over the edge! I thought that it was truly unprofessional and tacky of Dr to send Nurse in my room to give me that kind of abnormal test result. I had 2nd CT which was still inconclusive, so now my next stop is my OB/GYN per ER Dr suggestion.
Am I overreacting to this, expecting too much? As a nurse, I would have told Dr, I think this is news that needs to come from you and not me! Thanks for letting me vent!