Published May 19, 2017
poppy79
6 Posts
i potentially have a great new opportunity but have a 21 month old and one on the way. The catch is I will have to go back to overnights. How do you cope w/ overnights & a newborn?
meanmaryjean, DNP, RN
7,899 Posts
You HAVE to sleep and childcare is a must. Just like if you worked days.
SaltySarcasticSally, LPN, RN
2 Articles; 440 Posts
^^^ Yes, please do not try to avoid childcare and sacrifice your sleep. I get it, it's expensive, I pay $1200/month for 3 days a week, more than my mortgage. I work days but I would the same if I worked nights. My husband did the work at night, stay up with the kids during the day thing for a year. It destroyed that man's thyroid, he gained weight, and made him depressed. Took him a year to get back to his regular self after getting off nights. The expense stinks but it's not forever and your sleep is worth it.
RainMom
1,117 Posts
My youngest was 6 months old when I started my first nursing job, 8 hr nocs. Since I didn't have to go in until 2300, I was able to feed & rock him to sleep usually before I left. My husband took him to a sitter's & got the older kids to school before I got home & then I slept until school was out. It really wasn't too bad. When I went to 12 hrs shifts about 18 months later, I did 2 nocs on & 2-3 nocs off, so when I worked, it seemed like sometimes I didn't see the family at all between shifts. But I had more days off.