Published Sep 2, 2004
FranEMTnurse, CNA, LPN, EMT-I
3,619 Posts
Ben Stein's Last Column...The 'Real" Stars
How Can Someone Who Lives in Insane Luxury Be
a Star in Today's World?
I no longer think Hollywood stars are terribly
important. They are uniformly pleasant, friendly
people, and they treat me better than I deserve
to be treated. But a man or woman who makes a
huge wage for memorizing lines and reciting them
in front of a camera is no longer my idea of a
shining star we should all look up to.
How can a man or woman who makes an eight-
figure wage and lives in insane luxury really be
a star in today's world, if by a "star" we mean
someone bright and powerful and attractive as a
role model? Real stars are not riding around in
the backs of limousines or in Porsches or getting
trained in yoga or Pilates and eating only raw
fruit while they have Vietnamese girls do their
nails. They can be interesting, nice people, but
they are not heroes to me any longer.
A real star is the soldier of the 4th Infantry
Division who poked his head into a hole on a farm
near Tikrit, Iraq. He could have been met by a
bomb or a hail of AK-47 bullets. Instead, he
faced an abject Saddam Hussein and the gratitude
of all of the decent people of the world. A real
star is the U.S. soldier who was sent to disarm a
bomb next to a road north of Baghdad. He
approached it, and the bomb went off and killed
him. A real star, the kind who haunts my memory
night and day, is the U.S. soldier in Baghdad who
saw a little girl playing with a piece of
unexploded ordnance on a street near where
he was guarding a station. He pushed her aside
and threw himself on it just as it exploded. He
left a family desolate in California and a little
girl alive in Baghdad.
The stars who deserve media attention are not
the ones who have lavish weddings on TV but the
ones who patrol the streets of Mosul even after
two of their buddies were murdered and their
bodies battered and stripped for the sin of
trying to protect Iraqis from terrorists.
We put couples with incomes of $100 million a
year on the covers of our magazines. The noncoms
and officers who barely scrape by on military pay
but stand on guard in Afghanistan and Iraq and on
ships and in submarines and near the Arctic
Circle are anonymous as they live and die.
I am no longer comfortable being a part of the
system that has such poor values, and I do not
want to perpetuate those values by pretending
that who is eating at Morton's is a big subject.
There are plenty of other stars in the
American firmament. The policemen and women who
go off on patrol in South Central and have no
idea if they will return alive. The orderlies and
paramedics who bring in people who have been
in terrible accidents and prepare them for
surgery. The teachers and nurses who throw their
whole spirits into caring for autistic children.
The kind men and women who work in hospices and
in cancer wards.
Think of each and every fireman who was
running up the stairs at the World Trade Center
as the towers began to collapse.
Now you have my idea of a real hero.
We are not responsible for the operation of
the universe, and what happens to us is not
terribly important. God is real, not a fiction,
and when we turn over our lives to Him, he takes
far better care of us than we could ever do for
ourselves.
In a word, we make ourselves sane when we fire
ourselves as the directors of the movie of our
lives and turn the power over to Him. I came to
realize that life lived to help others is the
only one that matters. This is my highest and
best use as a human.
This was the only point at which my life
touched the lives of the soldiers in Iraq or the
firefighters in New York. I came to realize that
life lived to help others is the only one that
matters and that it is my duty, in return for the
lavish life God has devolved upon me, to help
others He has placed in my path. This is
my highest and best use as a human.
SoldierMedic
38 Posts
Hooooooooah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Acey
32 Posts
Ben Stein's Last Column...The 'Real" StarsHow Can Someone Who Lives in Insane Luxury Bea Star in Today's World?I no longer think Hollywood stars are terriblyimportant. They are uniformly pleasant, friendlypeople, and they treat me better than I deserveto be treated. But a man or woman who makes ahuge wage for memorizing lines and reciting themin front of a camera is no longer my idea of ashining star we should all look up to.How can a man or woman who makes an eight-figure wage and lives in insane luxury really bea star in today's world, if by a "star" we meansomeone bright and powerful and attractive as arole model? Real stars are not riding around inthe backs of limousines or in Porsches or gettingtrained in yoga or Pilates and eating only rawfruit while they have Vietnamese girls do theirnails. They can be interesting, nice people, butthey are not heroes to me any longer.A real star is the soldier of the 4th InfantryDivision who poked his head into a hole on a farmnear Tikrit, Iraq. He could have been met by abomb or a hail of AK-47 bullets. Instead, hefaced an abject Saddam Hussein and the gratitudeof all of the decent people of the world. A realstar is the U.S. soldier who was sent to disarm abomb next to a road north of Baghdad. Heapproached it, and the bomb went off and killedhim. A real star, the kind who haunts my memorynight and day, is the U.S. soldier in Baghdad whosaw a little girl playing with a piece ofunexploded ordnance on a street near wherehe was guarding a station. He pushed her asideand threw himself on it just as it exploded. Heleft a family desolate in California and a littlegirl alive in Baghdad.The stars who deserve media attention are notthe ones who have lavish weddings on TV but theones who patrol the streets of Mosul even aftertwo of their buddies were murdered and theirbodies battered and stripped for the sin oftrying to protect Iraqis from terrorists.We put couples with incomes of $100 million ayear on the covers of our magazines. The noncomsand officers who barely scrape by on military paybut stand on guard in Afghanistan and Iraq and onships and in submarines and near the ArcticCircle are anonymous as they live and die.I am no longer comfortable being a part of thesystem that has such poor values, and I do notwant to perpetuate those values by pretendingthat who is eating at Morton's is a big subject.There are plenty of other stars in theAmerican firmament. The policemen and women whogo off on patrol in South Central and have noidea if they will return alive. The orderlies andparamedics who bring in people who have beenin terrible accidents and prepare them forsurgery. The teachers and nurses who throw theirwhole spirits into caring for autistic children.The kind men and women who work in hospices andin cancer wards.Think of each and every fireman who wasrunning up the stairs at the World Trade Centeras the towers began to collapse.Now you have my idea of a real hero.We are not responsible for the operation ofthe universe, and what happens to us is notterribly important. God is real, not a fiction,and when we turn over our lives to Him, he takesfar better care of us than we could ever do for ourselves.In a word, we make ourselves sane when we fireourselves as the directors of the movie of ourlives and turn the power over to Him. I came torealize that life lived to help others is theonly one that matters. This is my highest andbest use as a human.This was the only point at which my lifetouched the lives of the soldiers in Iraq or thefirefighters in New York. I came to realize thatlife lived to help others is the only one thatmatters and that it is my duty, in return for thelavish life God has devolved upon me, to helpothers He has placed in my path. This ismy highest and best use as a human.
So true, Franemtnurse !!
We need to show our troops how grateful to them we are! They need our prayers and support ! They're priceless !
http://www.AnySoldier.us
God bless our troops !!!
RNPATL, DNP, RN
1,146 Posts
Outstanding Fran .... thanks for sharing this.
live4today, RN
5,099 Posts
Franemtnurse]Ben Stein's Last Column...The 'Real" StarsHow Can Someone Who Lives in Insane Luxury Bea Star in Today's World?We are not responsible for the operation ofthe universe, and what happens to us is notterribly important. God is real, not a fiction,and when we turn over our lives to Him, he takesfar better care of us than we could ever do for ourselves.In a word, we make ourselves sane when we fireourselves as the directors of the movie of ourlives and turn the power over to Him. I came torealize that life lived to help others is theonly one that matters. This is my highest andbest use as a human. ...................................[/QUOTE]:balloons: AMEN SISTER!
best use as a human. ...................................[/QUOTE]
:balloons: AMEN SISTER!
humiliated
47 Posts
SUPPORT THE TROOPS, NOT THE WAR!
ivsandy
51 Posts
i was thrilled to find your post and was very glad i did. i wholeheartedly agree with ben stein. it angers me that people like barbara streisand stand on thier soapbox and tell everyone to conserve energy while she lives in a gszillion room mansion with every light and pool filter running full balst (not to mention her airconditioning)!
also noted your profile. it looks like we may have a few things in common. maybe we can chat sometime.have a great holiday.
anytime. these people are the ones who are preserving our freedom, not the movie stars. the stars only provide entertainment; the greatest stars are those of our military forces, and their commitment to our country. multiple military, including our allied forces willingly laid down their lives for us all.