This is a question for all. I've been told many times that you need to have thick skin to work in the OR and you can't take things personal.
Ok so i was wondering how do you develop thick skin and how do you learn to not take things so personal? I'm already nervous as a new grad, new RN but i notice i get really nervous when someone snaps or yells at me. Because i'm not on my own yet i don't feel as stressed, but i know once i'm on my own and a surgeon or someone is yelling at me i'm afraid i'm going to go blank or freeze up or maybe break down and cry later on. I'm afraid i'm going to be too sensitive and take things too personal and go home crying after every shift. I know its inevitable and that i will have to deal with surgeons yelling, throwing fits and taking it out on nurses but i'm afraid i won't handle it well. I'm the type who normally doesn't talk back or give attitude. I believe in not feeding more fuel to the fire, just let it burn out on its own. I just hope that i won't be taken advantage of or walked all over having this philosophy. I had a nurse yell at me today for being in the way and now i don't even want to look or talk to her anymore. She's a dominant type who i thought was nice but now i see her in a different light. She's on my witch list now and someone i hope won't precept me. Would this be considered taking it personal?
I would love to hear any tips, advice, words of wisdom, your experiences and what type of personality do you have. Please share. Thanks
IsseyM