Just curious if anyone has had a baby at the hospital they work at.
We are planning on a home birth but you never know so...I really dont want to deliver with any of the OBs I work with, and there are no midwives. My insurance says I have to use the hospital I work at or I have to pay a lot more. Has anyone ever run into this? I dont think I should be forced to go to someone I work with for medical care! Has anyone used an OB or midwife they work with and how was it??
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I personally would prefer NOT delivering a baby where I work even though I love my coworkers. Midwives are VERY reasonable, by comparision to OB's at least for prenatal care. Were it me, I would prefer to pay more and go to a place where I had the option to birth my baby in the more natural manner----the one which you say you prefer---that is, you should look for a place that has the accomodations as well as the means and attitude to deal with your birth plans/preferences and respect them. If this is not the situation where you work, then it's worth it to go elsewhere, even if it costs you to do so.
It would be WELL worth the expense to birth your child in the surrounding you feel most comfortable in---and in the hands or health care workers (midwives as well as nurses) that respect your wishes and will carry them out to the best of their ability.
Just food for thought from an experienced OB nurse who had her kids in places where she did NOT work. And was very glad.
I had my last 2 babies at "my" hospital and LOVED it!!!
It is so relaxing to know what is going on. You know all of the women taking care of you. It was just like family to me. You know the routines and when to expect things. Plus you can feel free to let them know what you want and they will honor your requests.
I work nights so when I came in for labor/delivery I had 2 of my favorite nurses/coworkers admit me. Then the day shift arrived and they were fighting over who would get the privilege of taking me! We have 2 MW's at my hospital and I was comfortable with all of them.
I would NEVER want to deliver somewhere else.
I am looking forward to doing it again...hopefully by the end of this year!
Good luck to you and I hope you get the birth you want.
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I had my first child at the hospital that I worked at, though I did not work the OB unit. My birthing experience was very unique because my fellow nursing students helped out with my labor and delivery! I gave birth right in the middle of one of my OB clinicals. So anyway, two of my fellow students got to be familiar not ONLY with my nether regions, but also some of my *INNER* regions, as I had to have a C section and two fellow students got to help out. Some would be squemish but I thought it was a nice experience that I'll never ever forget. Annnnyway though, there were also other coworkers there that I was familiar with. I'll be having this baby at the same hospital; though I don't work there anymore, I still know a good majority of the folks there.
I had my son in Septemper at the hospital I work at and it was nice. I new the routines, doctors and nurses. I work day shift and delivered on the night shift which was kind of nice because I don't work directly with those girls and I was a screamer. My labor lasted at total of 3 hours and 15 minutes (from first contraction to delivery) and was very intense. His 15 (yes fifteen) inch head didn't have a chance to mold and my labor was too short for pain meds. I was only at the hospital for about an hour before I delivered him.
I loved seeing familiar faces. Everyone was very supportive of me trying for my second VBAC and new my wishes (even on the night shift) and it was wonderful. I feel very comfortable with the people I work with and my hospitals way of doing things though so it was a natural choice for me.
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I had my baby in the hospital I worked in as a midwife and where I had also trained as a midwife. I had absolutely no complaints, but typically ended up with a c-section and pph.
It was nice being treated by people I knew and trusted. The only bad apple was a student nurse who insisted on calling me dear all the time. I found her very condescending. Boy you should have seen her face when she found out I was a Registered Midwife. I did worry about how she was treating the other new mums though.
I did not. Dh is military and I work in the civilian hospital in our town, I delivered at the military facility. I was seen by midwives and for the most part had a very positive experience. I think I would not have minded having my co-workers take care of me. However, the military is less strict about things so I got to walk when I was ruptured, 4cm/100%/0. Heck, they were going to let me have intermittent monitoring! Both of those things are an absolute no-go where I work. My midwife gave me a chance to go into labor without Pitocin (I wasn't really contracting), where I work I think most of the MD's would have given it right off the bat.
My daughter had her twins at my little hospital. We were scheduled to close as a hospital and reopen as a gero psych hospital and the twins were the last to be born there. This place was small and all the employees were very tight, which is why I loved the place. Those babies were visited by everyone. Everytime RT did treatment in there they had to love on and feed them or whatever they could. The nurses treated my daughter like family as well.
That was 7 yrs ago and anytime I see any one from that place they always ask about the twins.
My daughter loved that place to.
It was a great place to have children as well as being a great place to work.
There was another thread regarding this so I was afraid to answer again thinking this was that thread . . . but I don't see my answer so . . .
I would not and did not have my last baby at the hospital where I work as a nurse. I did have two of my previous children there but I was not a nurse then.
I'm private - I didn't want the people I work with, Docs and nurses, to have seen me at my possible worst or had access to my inner workings.
I just wanted, with #4, a safe delivery. After 3 other kids, I wasn't so much into the whole process of labor and delivery . . .been there, done that.
You can't walk at your hospital when that is the case??? That is a great time to allow someone to walk.
Wow is all I can say
NO! If the patient is ruptured, regardless of what the cervical exam yields, no walking! Which is one of the reasons why I do not regret my decision to deliver at the military hospital.
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Which is one of the reasons why I do not regret my decision to deliver at the military hospital.
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I personally would prefer NOT delivering a baby where I work even though I love my coworkers. Midwives are VERY reasonable, by comparision to OB's at least for prenatal care. Were it me, I would prefer to pay more and go to a place where I had the option to birth my baby in the more natural manner----the one which you say you prefer---that is, you should look for a place that has the accomodations as well as the means and attitude to deal with your birth plans/preferences and respect them. If this is not the situation where you work, then it's worth it to go elsewhere, even if it costs you to do so.
It would be WELL worth the expense to birth your child in the surrounding you feel most comfortable in---and in the hands or health care workers (midwives as well as nurses) that respect your wishes and will carry them out to the best of their ability.
Just food for thought from an experienced OB nurse who had her kids in places where she did NOT work. And was very glad.