nursing school bullying

beeskipper1023 · Sep 15, 2013

I'm guessing you have not really been bullied before if this is what you can consider bullying. I was bullied lots of times before if I tell you the things mean people have done to me you wouldn't believe me. And this here I call playing games. Maybe he has a crush on you. Remember Helga from hey Arnold? lol... You gotta toughen up youngin'! There are way worse things that could happen. Next time don't wait on anyone to hand you the papers. Stand up and get your own, and if he happens to pass u up again, say "Oh well, life goes on" show him you're a tough cookie. DON'T EVER BE AFRAID TO STAND ALONE! I wouldn't even confront him for what?! you don't need his approval at all. Accept the fact that not everybody is going to like you. It can be a cold cold world.

AUbelleRN · Sep 16, 2013

I have a pretty low tolerance for people being rude, because I don't accept that behaviour I am not treated badly.

I go out of my way to be nice to others, and how I am feeling doesn't impact the way I treat other people.

I'm sure it bothers you because it would bother anyone, when he is "throwing shade" next time, look him in the eye, even in front of the professor and say "I'd really appreciate it if you would be a little more professional, it really makes me sad to have to come to clinicals with you due to your continued lack of common courtesy. If there is a problem with me you would like to discuss I'm happy to so, if the problem is yours please leave it at home."

armywife808 · Sep 16, 2013

Ok, maybe I watch too much of the ID channel, but I would stay clear of him. Sounds like this joker has deeper issues if he is singling you out.

danlee · May 30, 2014

Sounds like the psycho chick I met at school..I told her essay is good but a little wishy washy so polish it

She went nuts acting like childish kid. She crumpled essay up.three glasses on table. Next week I had white out on my jacket

When I got to.clinicsks with her..she and friends wouldn't help me at all.they told me to f off in my face and would constantly put me down

I avoided and stuck with my patient

Then in class I didn't talk to her cause she was laughing ate constantly in class

No wonder I didn't talk to her and didn't give papers to her ..I didn't want to.deal with this psycho..

I mean I had to transfer to another class to.get as far way from.these psychos as possible

Please grow the **** up

If someone tells u your essay is wishy washy don't freak out and go nut

Whateverworks · Aug 30, 2016

"Be the bigger person. Ignore his behavior, or better yet, the next time he gives a handout to everyone except you, remind him loudly that he forgot you."

That's what I ended up doing. We would all take turns presenting and some douche in my clinical section felt the need to talk over me, loudly, every time. I actually don't think she was trying to be mean, she just lacked consideration and didn't take social cues. I called her by name, waved my hand a little, interrupted her until she was quiet, and then took my turn (back) talking. Some people just need bluntly reminded.

Ellie.D · Aug 31, 2016

He's being rude, sure, but bullying? I wouldn't think so. Man, has 'bullying' come to encompass a wide number of behaviors since I was a kid.
Be the bigger person. Ignore his behavior, or better yet, the next time he gives a handout to everyone except you, remind him loudly that he forgot you.

I agree, bullying is a really intentional acts of harm, damage, etc. This seems pretty "soft" fir bulky behavior. Thus guy might be shy or intimidated by you or know everyone else but I would try to put myself in a place where he can't avoid me, like step up and reach for one of those handouts when he does that, and up he keeps it up call him out, like "hey, can I get one?" If it keeps up, confront him politely outside of class.