The Smelly Coworker

Dealing with a coworker who has offensive body odor can lead to an unpleasant experience for colleagues, patients, visitors, and anyone else who comes into contact with the person. The purpose of this article is to provide suggestions on handling the smelly coworker. Nurses Announcements Archive Article

I'm sure that the majority of readers have had the unpleasant experience of working in close proximity to a coworker who smells terribly at least once during their careers. If you have never had a coworker who stinks to high heaven or at least smells somewhat strangely, consider yourself extremely fortunate.

Predictably, everyone on the unit or ward is acutely aware that the person smells. In fact, everybody talks about this person's raunchy smell when he or she is not within an earshot. If the smelly coworker provides direct care, the more alert patients might discreetly mention the problem to other staff when this person is not around. Strangely enough, the smelly coworker is always the only one who is not aware that he or she is emitting body odor that offends others. It's a sticky situation.

Too often, nobody directly approaches the coworker about his or her noticeable smell. Instead, an anonymous group of colleagues may pitch in with some cash to purchase some toiletries, personal care supplies, and a basket. The coworker feels embarrassment, humiliation, and a figurative kick in the face when he or she later discovers a basket with bars of soap, deodorant, toothpaste, shampoo, and a nameless note with a blunt message to use these personal care items because he or she stinks.

Also, some colleagues spend years without even taking the anonymous route of getting the message to the person. They simply have learned to adapt to the person's stench. Ignoring the problem is not fair to the smelly coworker or the people who must work in the same quarters with the person.

Ultimately, it is the responsibility of the smelly coworker's manager or supervisor to confront this person regarding the strong body odor. Yes, I most certainly said it. Lateral colleagues should not be forced to deal with the smell, nor should they bear the responsibility of approaching the coworker regarding his or her offensive odor.

The manager needs to have a private, straightforward talk with the coworker. This is not the time for any hedging or indirect clues. The manager or supervisor should keep the conversation short and get to the point while employing a sympathetic, cool tone. "We're here to discuss your hygiene. You have an odor that is distinct enough to make your patients, coworkers, and others uncomfortable. Can I count on you to concentrate on this problem as soon as possible?"

Of course, the smelly coworker might be in denial and insist that they do not have an odor. In addition, certain health conditions result in body odor, and specific cultural foods and seasonings are odorous. If management has been made aware of the body odor and they refuse to address the issue, a brave colleague may arrange to have the private talk with the coworker.

Dealing with a coworker who has body odor can be distressing for all parties involved, but some sympathy, patience, and tact should go a long way. Good luck!

Specializes in Critical Care; Cardiac; Professional Development.

I too wish people would stop using perfume at work. No matter how I explain that I have migraines that are triggered by perfume, the coworker interprets it as me telling them they stink, which is just not the same thing at all. They can smell wonderful and still give me a truely debilitating headache. The stuff from Bath and Body Works and the Calgon line of stuff in particular set me off and it seems half the women of the world put this stuff on before work thinking it completes their hygiene regimen.

I have not yet encountered someone who smells of B.O. or other bad smells. Just the perfume thing, which runs rampant. Ladies, please stop wearing perfume/scented body lotions/scented powders/scented hand sanitizers to work. It really is debilitating for those of us who are sensitive to it. It has nothing to do with what I think of that person or whether I think they stink and everything to do with the physical pain, nausea and inability to keep working that happens to me around it. Perhaps when I have to go home sick and they have to take some of my patients it will sink in?

I signed up just to comment on this OP. I sweat...a lot I've been to doctors they say nothing is wrong with me, it's only when I get very hot that I sweat buckets. I can step outside and within minutes my whole shirt is soaked, that's in the summer.It has been in the 100's here, when I get to work of course I'm soaking, miserable and I'm sure not smelling too fresh. Add to that my a.c. in my car while it does cool, does do it fast enough or as well as I would like. Plus where I work, it is as hot as hades some patients refuse to turn their a.c. on, so I'm gasping and have sweat pouring off of me. Do you think I enjoy this, trust me I've tried nearly everything my doctor tells me nothing is wrong with me. I use Certain Dri which is a super strength underarm anti-perspirant however and sorry for TMI. It does not solve the problem of my sweating EVERYWHERE ( and I do mean everywhere) on my body. I bring wipes, deodorant, and power to work to use throughout the shift. Still it is not enough, I hear the whispers and not so whispers. Your nice if you don't loudly proclaim that someone stinks. So I have mostly dry pits but everywhere else is sweating. I could bring an extra uniform and freshen up but what is the point? Like I said my job is hot as hades, so in the end it won't matter. I ask do people really think that I don't want to have to deal with this problem, does it make you feel better to sit there snickering and talking behind your hands. I know what your saying, I am not stupid. Trust me I wish I didn't have this problem, it is as unpleasant for you as it is for me. How would you like to have your clothes clinging to you for 8 hours. Oh and by the way I do shower 2 times a day. I'm not trying to come down on you but just wanted you to hear someone who is "smelly" side. Some of us don't want to "smell".

Specializes in Hospice / Ambulatory Clinic.

The above post is exactly what I'm talking about. There is an automatic coloration between smelly and lazy or negligent or dirty. People are somewhat under the impression that sweating is a voluntary condition.

I know the replies are going to be OH we are only talking about the people who are stinky and don't know it but the article really doesn't encourage making a thoughtful distinction between "willful" stinkiness and "circumstantial" stinkiness.

Specializes in LTC and School Health.
The above post is exactly what I'm talking about. There is an automatic coloration between smelly and lazy or negligent or dirty. People are somewhat under the impression that sweating is a voluntary condition.

I know the replies are going to be OH we are only talking about the people who are stinky and don't know it but the article really doesn't encourage making a thoughtful distinction between "willful" stinkiness and "circumstantial" stinkiness.

I see your point. Perhaps a clear distinction should have been made. However, I do think it was a great article and I know Commuter did not mean to offend anyone.

I wrote a thread about nurses not looking professional alittle while ago, and got similiar responses. Ofcourse if someone is dying of cancer or overwhelmed with kids at home may not look their sharpest, however there are some people who just simply do not care about their hygiene.

Posters need to learn that not every article or thread applies to them. If you know you have a condition that makes you have a BO don't take offense.

Specializes in (Nursing Support) Psych and rehab.

I agree... I'm sure the OP did not include every possible person in her thread, if so, then that is not cool. There are some people who have specific issues that causes things like BO and there are others who just don't take an active part in controlling their BO. Huge difference.

Specializes in Cardio-Pulmonary; Med-Surg; Private Duty.
i agree... i'm sure the op did not include every possible person in her thread, if so, then that is not cool. there are some people who have specific issues that causes things like bo and there are others who just don't take an active part in controlling their bo. huge difference.

this!

the example i gave earlier of a coworker who would come to work three days in a row wearing the same unwashed shirt.... ewwwwww!!!! it's hotter than hades just about everywhere in the usa right now, and it's understandable that people are going to sweat during the course of the day.

the issue, imo, is people who just don't bathe or brush their teeth or wash their clothes or wear antiperspirant/deodorant at all. if you're at least trying, you get a pass, in my book!

Oh I didn't really take this article personally, I guess because I'm dealing with it now it just stuck out to me. I just wanted to give another point of view, it is very embarrassing not to want to walk by people in case they get a nose full of sweat ;0. Any other time of year I'm fine, its just in the summer it never fails. I'm always sweating buckets, not just at work everywhere there's extreme heat. If it were cooler at work I'm sure I'd be fine, however management for some reason seems to think its o.k. to have people working and living in extreme heat.That's for another thread however, thanks for understanding.

Specializes in Trauma, Emergency.

Coworkers aside, to me this is a pt issue. I personally have a very sensitive schnoz, and when I feel bad or even when I'm on the verge of nausea or head ache, one offensive "stank" can put me over the edge. We shouldn't have to give PRN zofran because we don't want to "hurt our colleagues' feelings." We wouldn't pussyfoot around with them if they were doing something else that worsens pt comfort or outright makes them feel bad, would we?

Specializes in Peds home care...vents,dialysis, transpl.

A young man CENA had an aversion to deodorant. He was a good worker but from a different part of the world where BO is considered a norm. He worked with senoir clients in a rehab setting. The work was heavy in physical needs. He was so odorous that as he passed through the halls he left a trail of scent. It was literally nauseating and even visitors complained that he would not be allowed to provide care to their relatives without removing this offensive odor. The young man was counseled and he chose to quit rather than use deodorant and shower daily...he did not do that either. We really liked him he was a good worker but the odor was overwheming and shocking when it attacked your olfactory senses. I would suffer a headache when he was on my team. We were thankful that the issue was addressed and at his request he quit.