Nurse sleeping with coworker

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I work at a nursing home and one of my fellow nurses is sleeping with a male CNA on the job. Well I don't think they are having sex there but they are fooling around. Even in patients rooms. Could she lose her license for this???

Dear Mr. Jgpsvt,

Your situation is unfortunate, for sure, but your conclusions are delusional and it would behoove you to figure out what is going on with your own relationship rather than spending your time reading nursing forums and making declarations about the "life of a nurse." Right? I get that your statement is made in an emotional state, but you are doing yourself no favors (in fact you are doing harm to yourself - not us) by wasting energy this way.

Take care -

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Dear Ms. JKL33

This is not a conclusions it's the truth. I know about almost 15 nurses before my wife became one. They all sleep around with there co-workers not only one but multiple . In fact I have a real good friend that was a chef at a huge nurse facility for elderly. He was messing with a hand full. I was looking for a answer or a reason why this happening so much. I never been on any forum before. I searched and this a what I found And surprisingly on the topic of the issue I'm having. So sorry to burst your bubble but there's nothing delusional about this. Also about my relationship it not prefect I would say it's normal. We had issue in the pass but nothing in this matter. We had disagreements in a relationship like any other relationship. I don't feel like I'm wasting energy on this. I'm researching why is this so common in this field.

I seen so many happy home broken because careless mistakes. Now I'm not counting on the relationships that they need an exit because it's too toxic. I'm talking about good relationships.

Also I'm not here to cause any harm in fact I'm venting as I'm research. I don't know if it the

Long hours, stress at work that cause people to make these mistakes? Btw the only one that is wasting Energy is you on your on your statement. You could have ask question , you couldn't have not replyed. I apologize if what I said about nurse life hoe life. I know nurse that are not like that. When I wrote and it slip my mind in instead of separating the good nurses from the one there and making falling into this vicious cycle. I just watch this morning about that show and it turn my stomach. But it's some what true. It sucks that people are shedding light on the issue. I love my family. I love nothing more to wake up and see my wife next to me as our kids run too us in the morning to make breakfest. Like i said I'm not the fool it's this countiunes I'm not up for it. But I going to be the bigger man and do what I have to do to save my family. She appolize to me in a matter that I felt that it was the apology I deserved.

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I hate to say this. But it seem life the nurse life is a hoe's life. Me and my wife have come across this. So many nurse screwing there co workers on break or after hours. I'm sorry but nurse do it to them self. I just had to go threw something like this. My wife fell into this cycle. I have yet to find out what cause her to take this leap of faith. I can say I'm lucky cause I found where she was at and stop what was happening before it started. It's insane how nurses thats are mother and wife are willing to Throw everything away. I can only try to keep my family together. Not sure if this will happen again but this really put a hurt in our relationship. As a man I can only do my best keeping my family together. But I not going to play the fool. If she want to step out like that then this will be the end. The hospital has to have rules or something help against this cycle.

This is so NOT limited to the nursing profession. For someone to label a profession as a "hoe's life" is offensive. I know many nurses/medical staff and none of us are involved with one another-EVER.

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Dear Ms. JKL33

This is not a conclusions it's the truth. I know about almost 15 nurses before my wife became one. They all sleep around with there co-workers not only one but multiple . In fact I have a real good friend that was a chef at a huge nurse facility for elderly. He was messing with a hand full. I was looking for a answer or a reason why this happening so much. I never been on any forum before. I searched and this a what I found And surprisingly on the topic of the issue I'm having. So sorry to burst your bubble but there's nothing delusional about this. Also about my relationship it not prefect I would say it's normal. We had issue in the pass but nothing in this matter. We had disagreements in a relationship like any other relationship. I don't feel like I'm wasting energy on this. I'm researching why is this so common in this field.

I seen so many happy home broken because careless mistakes. Now I'm not counting on the relationships that they need an exit because it's too toxic. I'm talking about good relationships.

Also I'm not here to cause any harm in fact I'm venting as I'm research. I don't know if it the

Long hours, stress at work that cause people to make these mistakes? Btw the only one that is wasting Energy is you on your on your statement. You could have ask question , you couldn't have not replyed. I apologize if what I said about nurse life hoe life. I know nurse that are not like that. When I wrote and it slip my mind in instead of separating the good nurses from the one there and making falling into this vicious cycle. I just watch this morning about that show and it turn my stomach. But it's some what true. It sucks that people are shedding light on the issue. I love my family. I love nothing more to wake up and see my wife next to me as our kids run too us in the morning to make breakfest. Like i said I'm not the fool it's this countiunes I'm not up for it. But I going to be the bigger man and do what I have to do to save my family. She appolize to me in a matter that I felt that it was the apology I deserved.

Duly noted.

Take care.

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If you continue to look I apologize for that comment. I know a good amount of good nurse.

But it's the truth and it's what's happing. Everyone want to brush it off like it's something that doesn't exist. I find what's happing in our hospital offensive. But you haven't made any inquire about that. Im sure you have heard something of this matter happen. If not you work in the best inviroment. Again this comment of how life wasn't directed to you or anyone in this forum. I didn't called out anyone names. I would like to know what's your input of this matter and what you think causes so many people to end in this. Thanks

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