Ever have a major crush on a doctor

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Ever know someone who has a major crush on a doctor?

Then you have to be extra nice to all the doctors so it's not so obvious that your so nice to your crush doctor. Then your co-workers name 6 other doctors that they think you have a crush on!

Someone else was supposed to be on call one day, I was in a hurry, didn't do a thing with my hair or makeup, then I saw him! (Yikes) So now I watch carefully what I wear, and make up and hair everyday. I've also lost weight. And since both he and I are married, it kinda works for my husband. My husband likes that I do my hair and make up, lost weight, etc. Then I come home and I'm lovey dovey with my husband.

Both my crush doctor and I are both married with kids at home. I would never cheat - you can never take that back. I would never be able to break up 2 families. If my crush doctor ever attempted to cheat on his wife with me, it would kill that whole crush and I would be disgusted with him. (Which I'm sure he'd never do - which adds to his wonderfulness *sigh*)

ok today best thing happened. the resident doc i mentioned in my previous post gave me his # and told me to call him. I still have more clinical (2 weeks) where he is working. should i call him or wait till i finish. i really love to go out with him but i am afraid if that will have any effect on my school. any advise please.

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Let him know you are interested and explain that you are swamped until the week after next. Assure him after that you'll be able to go out on a date with him.

I think that is best so you can let him know you are available, while keeping things professional. Good luck and be smart.

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Specializes in Psychiatrics.

Almost dated a med student, 4th year, thank God I didn't. Turns out he was a bit of an idiot, and if I had been dating him I wouldn't have met my amazing boyfriend. He's an ex-marine, and even though he doesn't understand everything that I do as a nurse, he understands that it can be difficult and he is always there for me. So, from my perspective, I would rather date anyone, including an unemployed high-school drop-out than a doctor...

But that's just my :twocents: worth....

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Let me preface this by saying that I am boy-crazy! I develop crushes on men from all walks of life! So naturally, being a nurse and working around doctors, I would develop a few on them!

I spent an entire summer desperately infatuated with an Internal Medicine resident. He knew it, too, and so did everyone in the darn hospital! He liked me, too, but you know what I found out at the end of the summer? He had a girlfriend the entire time. Apparently I was his "hospital girlfriend." Whatever that is!

Right now, there is another Internal Medicine resident (I just can't stay away from them, I guess) whose presence gives me a run of V-Tach! I started doing the nice hair and makeup thing, too. Sadly, I rarely get to see him so who knows if anything will come of this. Whatever, it's all fun and gives me a sight for sore eyes once in a while.

Naomi Grace, RN

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i have had a raging crush on an on call night doc for months.

im not really impressed by anyone.

perhaps its chemical.

who knows.

of course, i would never approach the subject with him.

he makes me sweat.

fantasy is sometimes better than reality.

:omy:

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Specializes in GYN, IM, Cardiac.

my NS instructor spent almost a whole lecture on the importance of "never get your honey, where you make your money!" Valuable lesson i think! lol;)

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seriously...and then you come to this same site and b@#@# about how nurses get no respect from Dr's. I'm a nurse, but as a guy there's one thing i'm smart enough to know. don't s#@$ and drink from the same stream.

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Specializes in rehab.

Naomi Grace RN, we are so similar, I currently have a crush on a waaaaayyyy older doc, hes so hot (to me at least) ;)

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Currently I am doing my Med/Surg rotation, and me and my clinical girls (including the instructor..lol) have an inside joke.

There's this gorgeous neurosurgeon who we call Dr. Delicious...I think every woman who works in that hospital knows who this Dr. is and would definitely agree that he is major eye candy;) There are also some residents that are easy on the eyes too...lol

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LOL "Dr Delicious" that's funny!=D

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Specializes in rehab.

I have major crush on one of the much older doctors...I mean MAJOR!! he is waaaaaaaaaay older than me (like 30yrs :) ) but we flirt here and there (let me add he is hot for his age!! at least i think so) I hope i'm not a wierdo isolated case but has anyone ever experienced this, and if so how did you handle it?

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Specializes in Addictions, Acute Psychiatry.

I used to have crushes in high school. I admired some physicians but knew their divorce rate was bad. The one that "did it" for me, I'd avoid whenever possible because it would distract me and you shouldn't pee where you eat or fish off the company pier. Work is work, play is play and the two cannot mix. My career is too important and if I get stupid because some hot doc is around, I need to avoid that person and stick to sound judgment, caring for the loved one's of the public I've been charged to do.

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