Ever have a major crush on a doctor

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Ever know someone who has a major crush on a doctor?

Then you have to be extra nice to all the doctors so it's not so obvious that your so nice to your crush doctor. Then your co-workers name 6 other doctors that they think you have a crush on!

Someone else was supposed to be on call one day, I was in a hurry, didn't do a thing with my hair or makeup, then I saw him! (Yikes) So now I watch carefully what I wear, and make up and hair everyday. I've also lost weight. And since both he and I are married, it kinda works for my husband. My husband likes that I do my hair and make up, lost weight, etc. Then I come home and I'm lovey dovey with my husband.

Both my crush doctor and I are both married with kids at home. I would never cheat - you can never take that back. I would never be able to break up 2 families. If my crush doctor ever attempted to cheat on his wife with me, it would kill that whole crush and I would be disgusted with him. (Which I'm sure he'd never do - which adds to his wonderfulness *sigh*)

I bet they did

Unless he looks like Denzel Washington...forget it!

I flirt with them, too. They love it. It inflates their ego and they will do whatever you need them to do. lol One of my docs calls me "luscious lips." haha He isn't attractive at all and is old enough to be my dad...but his plastic surgeon son....now that's another story!

Specializes in Psychiatric.

I did have a crush on my GYN doctor, but I got over it LOL...I DO, however, have crushes on some of my husband's co-workers...he's in the Coast Guard as a search/rescue flight mechanic, so his buddies are all either flight mechanics, pilots, or rescue swimmers...(sigh)...I adore my husband...we're best friends, but it sure is nice watching all those buffed up military guys (hubby included! lol) jump in that helicopter and fly off into the Gulf to rescue some poor soul!

Past the crush, if you want to date an available doc try this and you will. Be spunky with them! Disagree with them on something that you can backup. I've noticed a trend over the years and it also relates to my own experience with dating a doc. A lot of these guys are not accustom to someone standing up to them and when someone does...well, it intrigues them. It also shakes their confidence. Yes, the right time and tact is required, but it's not that hard to do. I had no desire to date a female MD, yet when one asked me out, I thought, "Why not?" It all started after I called her a wimp! We dated for a time, but I got tired of her hours. I wouldn't do it again, yet someone who is looking for a lifestyle and not a life may want to date/marry a doc.

ok here is the thing i am in the last semester of nursing school and i have a crush on one of the resident docs. everyday i think more and more about him and his acts makes me think he feels what i am feeling. the past 3 weeks he was using every reason he got to talk to me but i was scared to death even to look at him. i will change clinical site in 4 weeks and i am worried that i won't have a chance to see him again unless i do something now. i really like him. what should i do. please some advice.

Specializes in CTICU.

Wait til you're leaving that site, then give him your numbers and tell him to call you. If he does, great. If he doesn't, concentrate on school!

Specializes in ortho, hospice volunteer, psych,.

when i had been out of school about a year or so, i began to date a chief resident from south america.

we had dated about 18 months when he decided he wanted to return home to practice when he finished his program. he was reconstruction and plastics and wanted to help kids with birth defects. he was drop dead gorgeous, tall, funny, clever, but i just couldn't go that far away for the rest of my life.

kathy

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Well, being in my mid 40's as a new nurse, I can't say I feel seriously about any of the docs, but the younger interns and residents are sure nice to look at. I enjoy seeing them and working alongside them. I have to say, though -- a lot of them are also sorta geeky. :coollook:

One attending would have absolutely either flirted w/ or jumped on if I was 20 years younger. He is tall and very sexy -- but most of all, just super nice and pays attention to you if you're helping him out. He actually calls me by name now as we have worked together a bit, so that's a nice thing. I think he's a fabulous younger doctor as well -- very charming and different.

As I said . ..if I was only 20 years younger . ..heh-heh.

Now the older docs -- my age and older -- FORGET IT. Most of them are so cross and crabby I wouldn't touch them w/ a ten foot pole -- even the good looking ones. They are just SNARLY. :no: I know they work hard, but their nastiness is not at all flattering. Do they even realize it??

Whatever -- I guess they're not there to snag dates. LOL. :chuckle

I should have been a doctor.

Specializes in Obstetrics.

Be careful! (although I have a crush on our ER Dr. but I don't work in ER) :smokin:

Specializes in ortho, hospice volunteer, psych,.

the south american reconstruction surgeon mentioned in an earlier post, once put a warm carton of 6 glass bottles of beer in my freezer without telling me, then forgot all about them. i think i showed admirable restraint when i didn't kill him after they exploded inside my freezer. whatta mess!!

kathy

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