Hi everyone,
Can anyone feel free to comment on my thoughts below?
Despite almost everyone around me discouraging me to go into Nursing, as we all know it is a very demanding profession, I still insisted and registered for pre-requisite courses a year ago. My grades were nearly 100; I also started volunteering at a local hospital to see how Nurses spend their days at their jobs. This spring, I got accepted to a local Nursing program, and I applied for loans & bursaries; registered for Fall courses. All there is left for me, is to start the semester.
However, I discovered allnurses.com not too long ago, and I honestly wish I knew about this site last year.
Now I clearly see how demanding this job is; Nurse bullying, getting physically & verbally attacked & abused by patients, MDs not appreciating you, colleagues back-stabbing, on top of long working hours and possible physical injuries (back problems, I hear), lack of support in the team, being set-up for a failure, risk of having your license revoked...etc.
OMG, I have to admit that I truly admire current nurses out there.
I'm almost on the point of just forgetting about this career, despite the fact that I've invested so much time & work to get into this program.
Why? I'm 38 y.o. right now and if, after graduating from the school several years from now, I feel I cannot handle this job, I think I'd be really really depressed after all that investment I would have made.
It seems like the nursing shortage is temporarily being resolved by the newly grads until they cannot handle their first new job anymore and then the hospitals go for another batch of newly grad nurses.
Why else is there a nursing shortage??
Not only that, the hospital where I volunteer, I can clearly see that the nurses don't look happy at all. All of them look extremely stressed out. Some of them are very unfriendly that I prefer to avoid them. Can you imagine if I were to work with them? Thank god I'm only a volunteer.
From what I've observed, the school life as a nursing student and actually nursing life once you get your license seems completely different, am I right? At school, you make friends and you build a good study group, etc. From what I've been reading here, forget about nursing friend or colleagues once you start working, since there seems to be an endless backstabbing and bullying in this field, given it's mostly women.
Why did I choose nursing as my 2nd career?
a. When I was in high school, MedSchool was my goal. Didn't make it. Long story.
b. I've always been interested in health / science / doing researches.
c. Each time I was well accomodated by healthcare professionals, I've always longed to be part of them, making difference in other people's lives. Now, I think I wasn't realizing how those healthcare professionals interact among themselves, versus how they interact wth patients. That's also different, right?
d. Of course, I've been longing for a stable & mobile career; sth I can pursue for the rest of my life.
This, also, may not the reality, since I've been hearing about how a lot of nurses get back injuries after long years in this field.
Please feel free to honestly comment on my thoughts.
Yes, I think I'm a really coward, at this point and a zero self-confidence....2 months before school starts.