I just saw your other thread... bummer
Sorry to hear about your issues with Brockport. I have heard that they have a limited number of spots for transfer students and they must have had a ton of applicants this year.
Have you looked at some of the other private schools in the area besides U of R? I looked in to St. John Fisher and it looks pretty straightforward to apply if you have a bachelor's degree already. I believe I have heard that they have a session that starts in the Winter too (not sure about how true that is.) Nazareth has a good program too, but I think they are more strict about transfers. I didn't look into Naz too much. Yes, these schools are more expensive than Brockport, but since they are private schools they probably have good scholarships
/financial aid, and with your credentials I imagine you would qualify for some money. There's also Roberts Wesleyan, but I don't know a whole lot about their program.
The UR program is awesome but yes it is super expensive. The positive side is that you finish in a year and you basically have your ticket written to work wherever you want in Rochester when you are done. UB also has an accelerated program which is a fraction of the cost. It just might be worth a commute to Buffalo. I believe they have a winter starting session as well. There are some other private schools in Buffalo with Nursing programs, but I don't really have any info on those.
I am sure everything will work out for you... things work out for the best in the end!