Hello all,
I am a new grad RN who landed my first job in a small hospital. I really wanted to work at this hospital because it is small and it is also a teaching hospital, so I figured I was going to get some great life experiences... well life experiences is what I have gotten to say the least.
This week was my first week on the floor with my preceptor... she is a fantastic nurse, knows everything there is to know about the floor and the pts, when she does her work I am in awe of her... but, she isn't the best teacher for a new grad RN... The first day she let me follow her around doing a few things, like passing some meds, turning pts, and anything else she wanted to show me. The second day she told me to take on one pt soley and do everything for that pt from 7am - 730pm, now this is my first hospital job ever and I have never used their computer charting, IV pumps, or any of their equipment ever... So its like teaching a 5 year old how to do things. She would show me things one time and expect me to know it from then on, well that didn't happen because the way she teaches and the way I learn are two completely different styles. The third and final day of my first week on the floor (I had to work three twelves in a row), she told me to take one pt on again and do everything for them. Well I tried my best, and that wasn't good enough, the entire day she was making comments towards me that I needed to suck it up and be better. She also made the comment of "just because you made it through school, doesn't mean you're going to be a good nurse", which is entirely true, it doesn't mean you're going to be a good nurse at all. I don't really think nursing school taught me anything, besides some medical terminology. Clinicals and actual floor nursing are completely different in all ways.
I guess I just feel like she was setting me up for failure all week and expecting me to know how to be a seasoned nurse when I am absolutely clueless about how to be a floor nurse. Everything I did, was incorrect in her eyes and so she tried to correct me in the best way she knew how but it was more like she was attacking me and breaking me down, instead of building me up and shaping me into a great new RN. I know some people just can't be preceptors no matter how amazing of a nurse they are. I have heard when she was a preceptor for another new grad, she made them feel so bad, they ended up quitting and finding employment somewhere else.
Sorry this is so long, but all week she belittled and attacked me, making me feel like I am incompetent and probably shouldn't have become a nurse in the first place. I guess a few floor nurses picked up on this and went to our boss telling her we just weren't a good match for each other and now my boss has switched my preceptor to someone else. I feel like this has bad karma written all over it, even though I am not the one who asked for a new preceptor.
I just don't know what to do at this point, I don't know what to study in order to make this transition from student nurse to floor nurse more successful, if I should look for a new job else where, if I should stick orientation out and hope my new preceptor is a better teacher...
Any advice for a brand new RN who is greener than green would be appreciated. =)
I am so nervous to go back to work I can't even think straight... its really bothering me