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I'm glad they respected her right to refuse medical treatment. I'm sorry she died, don't get me wrong. But patients do have the right to refuse treatment, and not just when they are at the end of their lifespan. Kudos to the staff who respected her decision despite how helpless it must have made them feel. That must have been extremely difficult for them.
i'm sorry but there is something about just letting a patient that you very well might have saved die that makes me sick...i know all about "it's her right" stuff. well why did she even come to the hospital, why not just have the baby at home then in some cornfeild. a patient comes to the hospital and wants our help, but then when her life is on the line she refuses....i'm sorry i'm in the buissness of trying to save life,sight or limb. thank god my name is not on her record, cause it just makes me sick.
i'm glad they respected her right to refuse medical treatment. i'm sorry she died, don't get me wrong. but patients do have the right to refuse treatment, and not just when they are at the end of their lifespan. kudos to the staff who respected her decision despite how helpless it must have made them feel. that must have been extremely difficult for them.
this has always been such a difficult patient decision for me to deal with. while i respect the rights of the patient, with jw, there are special circumstances involved. with any life event, i wish docs can talk them into banking their own blood, which requires approval from (priest), to use later. worst, this is seldom allowed due to beliefs. it's so frustrating, knowing that they die, when we can easily treat.... but we're "taught" to accept religious views. it's so easy in theory... so hard to watch a "needless" death... especially with the birth of a family.
i wish i had the answers, my own faith gets in the way.
A very sad story from England.http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/england/shropshire/7078455.stm
a senseless death - if I had been their nurse I would've tried desperately to get them to change their mind. so sad:o
Very sad. We took care of a 20yr old male that had an MVA with a traumatic amp and multiple pelvic fx. He was bleeding into his pelvis and had a large volume loss from his femoral artery due to the amp. He and his family were devote JW. They refused blood, we took him to interventional to try and stop the pelvic loss,but he then coded on the table. The doc's pleaded with the family and the pt prior to LOC,to no avail. Neither fluid nor volume expanders worked and he died. It was an awful night and the family was heart broken. They stood firm in their beliefs that blood was wrong and accepted the death as God's will.
What can ya do but do as the family asks and believes. Debriefing of staff helps after a situation like this. The body did go to the ME office,blood would have saved him.
Very sad. We took care of a 20yr old male that had an MVA with a traumatic amp and multiple pelvic fx. He was bleeding into his pelvis and had a large volume loss from his femoral artery due to the amp. He and his family were devote JW. They refused blood, we took him to interventional to try and stop the pelvic loss,but he then coded on the table. The doc's pleaded with the family and the pt prior to LOC,to no avail. Neither fluid nor volume expanders worked and he died. It was an awful night and the family was heart broken. They stood firm in their beliefs that blood was wrong and accepted the death as God's will.What can ya do but do as the family asks and believes. Debriefing of staff helps after a situation like this. The body did go to the ME office,blood would have saved him.
It's like watching someone die - knowing you can save them. It must've been a horrible thing for medical staff to deal with.
I had a patient with a hemoglobin of 4.5, symptomatic, pale, couldn't hardly stand up. She refused blood because, (in her words) "I don't know where that blood came from!!! It could have HIV in it or somethin!" Educated her on the screening process but she didn't believe me (or any of the other people that tried to explain the same thing).
I tried to talk her into it, my charge nurse tried, another nurse on the floor tried, 2 physicians tried. The lady wasn't even a JW or anything, she just didn't want it. We all just shrugged, gave her some procrit, an iron pill, and sent her to the unit.
It's like watching someone die - knowing you can save them. It must've been a horrible thing for medical staff to deal with.
It was a really bad day in the neighborhood, but we moved on. When people stand fast in their beliefs,right or wrong in our eyes,ya have to respect them. Not easy to see the one of the few major traumas that could have been saved die. Life is weird sometimes.
FireStarterRN, BSN, RN
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A very sad story from England.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/england/shropshire/7078455.stm