Let's Ban the Phrase "I'll Go Get Your Nurse"

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I discovered something about myself this week: I hate the phrase "I'll go get your nurse." I also have a similar disdain for the phrase "I'll have your nurse take care of it." They're simple, innocent enough phrases, but their implications are loud and clear.

G, a co-worker and CM, stopped in to see my patient to discuss matters pertaining to discharge. While speaking to the patient and his daughter, the daughter requested that the patients' vital signs be re-checked as she's worried about his condition. V, my PCA, happened to be in that room, organizing supplies. G exits the patient's room, spends approximately 10 minutes (per her report) looking for me, and once she finally is able to spot me, says this: "Mr. __ 's daughter would like his vital signs re-checked. Can you do that when you have a minute?" ...

I pause for a minute and decide I have two ways to handle this: I can either endorse the theory that the nurse is *the* essential personnel and all issues/requests big and small (and tedious) ought be reported to her so she can carry out the request, or I can begin holding other members of the health care team accountable for the things which they are effectively able to delegate and/or take care of themselves. I choose the latter.

I say to G: "V is in the room organizing supplies. Could you please let her know?" G stares at me, stunned, and is unable to form a sentence for a minute. When she finally collects herself, she says, "Well, you're the nurse, why can't YOU do it?" I politely explain that a vital signs check is an appropriate task to delegate and at the moment I am taking care of a nursing responsibility that only I am able to complete. G stands there for a few more moments and then turns back around to finish her conversation with two other staff members, and I finally resign to the fact that my subtle message has fallen on deaf ears. I sign, find V, and ask her to please re-check the vital signs.

This, while a small and isolated issue, represents a larger problem. It is my belief that ancillary staff (those unlicensed) and other members of the health care team (including CM, SW, MD, RD, PT, and OT) should be able/willing to assist with requests presented to them that require a) little time to do, b) no nursing experience or license, and c) are appropriate to delegate to another person. I do realize that as an RN I represent the center of the patient's entire care experience, but I refute the idea that the nurse ought to be preoccupied with obtaining ginger ale's, extra pillows, changing the television station, or obtaining a telephone. As you're expecting me to carry out these menial, easily delegated tasks, I am often in the middle of more serious issues such as stabilizing a blood pressure, inserting a new IV, re-assessing a patient that has fallen, or being present with a physician to discuss end-of-life issues. Why has it become unacceptable to hold other staff members accountable for the things they are able to do?

It's the age old concept: nurses' can do everyone else's job (except portions of an MD's occupation), but not all staff can do a nurses' job. However, in the era of patient satisfaction surveys being tied to re-imbursement, nurses struggle day-to-day to provide safe, competent care while also balancing the needs (and often demands) for miscellaneous items that do not contribute to the overall picture. In nursing school, delegation is stressed to the maximum, as way to assist the patient in obtaining those "creature comforts," while also respecting the nurses' right to focus on the nursing care plan, perform interventions, re-evaluate those interventions, and document accordingly. While it seems as though I am suggesting that the nurses' time is more valuable than that of other ancillary staff, that is not the case. My point is simply that when an ASA receives a call over the call light system for an extra blanket, a box of tissues, and a magazine, he/she is capable of providing those items so that the nurse can carry out nursing-specific tasks that cannot be delegated.

As I step off my soapbox, I'm interested to hear the thoughts of others. Do you feel frustrated when pulled to perform tasks that are easily able to be performed by the person requesting your attention? How do you balance the demand to do all things related to the patient with ensuring the important nursing-only tasks are carried out? Is this isolated or does this happen in your environment as well?

Sounds like you don't truly enjoy your job. I would not appreciate u as a nurse.

Specializes in Med/Surg/ICU/Stepdown.
Sounds like you don't truly enjoy your job. I would not appreciate u as a nurse.

To the contrary, I love my job so much that I want to be able to dedicate my skills exclusively to their nursing needs. At the same time, I recognize the importance of their comfort needs, so I need my fellow co-workers to assist me in making sure all needs are met, and that includes respecting my nursing time as only I can provide those nursing needs.

Please don't presume to know you wouldn't want me as your nurse. You've no idea what an ignorant statement that is. I am a fantastic nurse and frankly, it'd be your loss.

I feel you wouldnt complain and start a post if you cared .I know nursing is a very fast paced job but that's why it requires you to multi task. Have a great day.

It's called team work!! It's called common sense!! Yes, there are levels of care assigned to each discipline but we all know that there are areas that overlap. If I'm in a room observing/conversing with a patient why not multitask?? Make the unmade bed the aide didn't get to.....or clean up an accident the patient had, or give a drink, or take to the bathroom to avoid the accident etc etc etc.

Quite often it takes more time to find the person responsible than it does to do it yourself! You are already there! I insist on absolute team work...that every pt is everyone's responsibility..if you see a light you answer it..take care of the call or find the appropriate person..that's everyone's job including mine!! If you pitch in when possible, you gain the respect of all disciplines because you care more about patient care, than whose job it is! When they notice you are right out straight, they pitch in and just do! For example a CNA told me she restocked the emergency cart, got a new O2 tank, tubing etc so I would just have to check it..... not her job! Another CNA re-stocked the top of my med cart with supplies, ice water and juices..and replenished supplies on the RX cart....not her job! It was a 'crisis' day and they all stepped up. Team work makes every day easier for everyone.....Granted the lower level disciplines, mostly, can't do your job.... but they can make your job easier, if you are not 'too good' to pitch in and do 'their' job when the opportunity and time presents.

Team work makes the dream work.

I feel you wouldnt complain and start a post if you cared .I know nursing is a very fast paced job but that's why it requires you to multi task. Have a great day.

LoL only a non nurse would say something so patronizing and dead wrong. If someone is complaining about problems, they care a lot. If someone cares little or not at all they wouldn't be bothered to worry or stress.

Requests I get that do not require an RN.... Patient wants a new blanket, other blanket has a stain from dinner.. Patient would like gown tie loosened. Patient dropped remote for TV, patient family member wants to know when doctor will be here, patient sock slid down, patients roommate (not my pt, not my name on board) has a question. Patient with diet orders clearly written on board with today's date would like crackers, patient who has urinal and no order for urine on care board would like it emptied. patient pillow needs readjusted because patient says it's too flat. Transport needs assistance with walky talky pt on no iv lines or anything, doc wants to know what home dose of med is from pharmacy, he has the number for you, pt family member wants a chair/cot/fan/blanket /water, doc wants patients last weight (it's in the chart on the front page of the patient's stuff) rt is out of duonebs and needs pharmacy to restock pyxis (so call them yourself) can't find call light (we have voice calls, tell pt they're holding it..) blanket not soft enough, bed needs raised up for comfort (see those buttons that a two year old could figure out?) pt wants to have a cigarette but has no lighter (I kid you not haha). Pt family member xyz called and wants info (pt listed as private and no info release on header of chart) pt wants to know what the cafeteria is serving, he doesn't like his menu. Can patient have pain meds? From case manager nurse who was in room with me 8 minutes ago when I was giving pain meds and can see the updated pain meds schedule on care board). Patient has gas and said farts smell (okay... I'm glad I have to walk to his/her room to close out request electronically for nothing and experience that)... Toilet clogged in walky talky pts room or guest bathroom... (seriously call maintenance, I don't care seriously, and I'm not a plumber) helicopter noise from lifeflight is too loud outside. Friend is homeless, can he stay here too? Patient's watch died, please come look at it. Patient's (600 lbs) butt itches (I'll do a lot of things for a patient, but.. No.. Sorry.. Just no.) Visitor would like nail file. Ice water requested is too cold. Visitors would like to know of best restaurants in area (granted, my hospice, long stay patients families may ask me about that while they're there but this was a walky talky pt and family who really didn't need to be there and they paged me for this 6 times in 8 minutes while I was placing an NG tube down the hall. Patient visitor requests fork from cafeteria. Patient wants nurse, says he is bored.... Sorry. Could go on and on. Dumb requests abound. I don't usually mind but when I get 40 stupid pages in an hour I lose it a bit lol.

Specializes in Nurse Leader specializing in Labor & Delivery.
Sounds like you don't truly enjoy your job. I would not appreciate u as a nurse.

AND....Godwin's Law.

Specializes in Pediatric Hematology/Oncology.
AND....Godwin's Law.

I did not know what this was until now...:woot:

Specializes in Pediatric Hematology/Oncology.
And to me it means cervical mucous.

In preparing/attempting to procreate for the past year or so, this is also what I thought. ;)

Specializes in Nurse Leader specializing in Labor & Delivery.
I did not know what this was until now...:woot:

AN has its own version of Godwin's Law - as soon as someone says "I would not want you taking care of me!" the thread is over.

IDK about BANNING THE PHRASE! lol but delegation is a VERY important skill in modern medicine.

And by skill, I really do mean skill. Its not as simple as telling others what to do. You need to to consider your own abilities and responsibilities (aka your states nurse practice act) as well as the laws and institutional policies regarding what those under you can and cant do.

CNAs are there for a reason and when the hospital makes staffing decisions, they are assuming that their RNs are delegating effectively. If that is not the case, then its no surprise when people become overwhelmed.

It really is a skill and on top of that, most poeple (including myself) are uncomfortable telling others what to do, especailly new grads working with CNA who have been on the unit since before they were born! Regardless, as an RN we have a right and responsibility to "order" CNA's to do certain things, and its our responsibility to know what those things are and make sure they actually get done. It makes it much easier to just do it ourselves, but I think learning to delegate properly is worth the effort and the frustration that comes with asking someone to do something and finding out they didnt do it right or on time.

Most important thing is to know what everyone's role and responsibility is. Its a lot easier said than done!

Specializes in Med/Surg/ICU/Stepdown.
IDK about BANNING THE PHRASE! lol but delegation is a VERY important skill in modern medicine.

And by skill, I really do mean skill. Its not as simple as telling others what to do. You need to to consider your own abilities and responsibilities (aka your states nurse practice act) as well as the laws and institutional policies regarding what those under you can and cant do.

CNAs are there for a reason and when the hospital makes staffing decisions, they are assuming that their RNs are delegating effectively. If that is not the case, then its no surprise when people become overwhelmed.

It really is a skill and on top of that, most poeple (including myself) are uncomfortable telling others what to do, especailly new grads working with CNA who have been on the unit since before they were born! Regardless, as an RN we have a right and responsibility to "order" CNA's to do certain things, and its our responsibility to know what those things are and make sure they actually get done. It makes it much easier to just do it ourselves, but I think learning to delegate properly is worth the effort and the frustration that comes with asking someone to do something and finding out they didnt do it right or on time.

Most important thing is to know what everyone's role and responsibility is. Its a lot easier said than done!

Thank you for your input. I completely agree.

Not only do we send the message that it is acceptable to expect the nurse to perform all aspects of care, but we also pre-set our patients to expect and even demand it.

Each person has an essential function to the well-being of the patient. It just happens to be that many, many tasks are easily delegated and nursing care is exclusive to nursing.

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