my kid wants a sibling, I want to start nursing school

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I'm really torn about getting pregnant. I don't have the time pressure to do it now, I am going to be 28. But my

family, (son & husban, and extended family) think it's good for him to have a sister/brother and this is the cut

off age for a good relationship. I'm not so sure because I am starting my prerequisites now and am applying in

the Fall for Spring start but hey I'm in So Cal so that could take a while! My husband says he will support me and

help with babysitting, but nursing school is serious business and I don't want to screw it up. It would be nice to

add to the family but these are hard times. Sometimes I don't think it's responsible to think well if I get excepted

and I have a four month old, I'd have to put the baby in day care to go to school. And from the forum I've learned

the hours of school vary and can be early or late or all over the board! What is it like, can it be done with two

small children and or babies???

Im all for kids

BUT its YOUR body and YOUR decision ..28 is still fairly young, by that I mean you can go through school and aim to get pregnant in your last semester/year and come out ok.

Nursing school will always be around, you know your body better than anyone here. If you think you can handle both, then great! I for one dont have kids, I kind of want the nursing thing to get into gear first in case anything happens to me and the father we'll be ok ..Ive seen someone pregnant first semester of nursing school and give 2 weeks prior to second semester starting (talk about timing) So far so good ..but again ..its yourrrrrrrr decision.

I did come on this forum to ask for the cold hard truth about handling it with a

small child. It does sound too hard, my son is 4.5 now and working 9-3 and the

prerequisite classes are hard enough I don't think I could handle another one

with the demanding schedule and homework. I don't know if it seems fair to have a kid only to drop him/her in daycare as early as 7 for school, I mean to

plan on that. If it is was work and I had to that would be different. Thanks for

all the advice. My husband wouldn't do laundry or dishes, he doesn't give baths

or cook. So this would never fly. I can't just magicly make him change and do

all that. He does alot of babysitting now while I am in class and cooks frozen

foods.

I think that you need to do what is best for you, it is really easy to think that it is something you want when others are putting pressure on you. If you think you can and it is something you want - then do it.

I have three children ages 7, 5 and 1 and I am a first year nursing student. It is a lot of work but I would not change it for the world.

I wish you good luck with whatever you decide.

How do you manage the 1 year old with school if you don't mind me asking? Now

that he is 4 I finally feel more free.

Does anyone else agree that widely spaced kids are o.k., seems like how you parent if anything.

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