I just recently started to work for a small hospital, and I came from a much bigger hospital. The unit I am with is currently trying to expand and improve things, so I was quickly promoted to a management position to try to help the unit grow. The unit has the biggest gossip/rumor mill/coworker bashing I have ever witnessed, and some are including me in all this, and I think they might be trying to bully me into leaving because I have already made some changes on the unit. I am younger than most of my coworkers, but I know that I can make a difference for the better because I came from a really solid hospital. I am trying to stick it through, but it's tough! I feel like I have no friends and if I talk too much, then rumors will start. If I don't talk to them, they all say that I am quiet and stuck up. I feel like I can't win. How can I deal with difficult people that don't respect me when I am in charge of them?