Is it okay to look for another job?

AutumnApple · Sep 27, 2016

It is always okay to look for another job.

I am an advocate for voting with your feet.

When I say that though, we are assuming one has put their best foot forward on the job and found out its a bad fit.

OP disliked the position before she interviewed. Her eyes are on another horizon. As I said, it's hard to imagine she will be showing her best while there. Not because I think she is unprofessional or anything but, you can hide not wanting to be there at all for only so long. It's only human.

I'd have tried to hold out for a position I at least respect myself.

TriciaJ, RN · Sep 27, 2016

I think that depends. Are they not paying you? Is it unsafe for patients and/or staff? If not, then I would try to stick it out and make the most of it for a year or so. It will actually fly by, and with that year under your belt you'll be surprised at the opportunities that open up.

I think this is good advice. If the place is exploiting you horribly or not set up to provide even marginal quality of care, then get out and don't look back.

If it's just not your dream job, then stick with it and get some good experience. You're not going to get really competent while you still have one foot out the door. So give yourself a break from the job listings and focus on being the best nurse you can be in your current situation.

In a year or two, when your dream job becomes available, you can move on with a clear conscience and a solid reference. And people who will be genuinely sad to see you go, not feeling ripped off.

FolksBtrippin, BSN, RN · Sep 28, 2016

I have stated that it is always okay to look for another job, and I'm going to explain why, and why I would encourage everyone and anyone to look for another job whenever they want and even if they are not that motivated to do so.

The primary reason is that the worst time to get a job is when you need one and the best time to get a job is when you don't need one.

The more you need a job, the worse your position is to negotiate a good position for yourself. The less you need a job the better your position.

If you can't afford to pay your bills you'll take anything, at any price, under any condition. If you're already paying your bills, you'll need something good to get you out of your comfort zone. You won't jump at the first offer, you'll only bite for something better than what you have.

Thus, the way to improve your lot in life is to apply for jobs when you don't need them.

The second reason is that interviewing is a skill that improves with experience and confidence. Interviewing for jobs gets easier the more you do it, and it is easier when you are not vulnerable and desperate (as you are when you are inexperienced or unemployed). Even if you never get a good enough offer to leave your current position, interviewing will be good practice for you for when you do need to leave your position.

The third reason (and the reason you should list your current employer) is that it is a good thing if your employer knows that you have other options. It balances the power. It probably won't make much of a difference after a month, but it may keep them from treating you unfairly. Later on it will remind them if you are due for a raise.

I encourage you to seek out the position you want. If you get it, then you will obviously benefit. But even if you don't get it, you may grow to appreciate your position more. You will at least not feel like you are not missing anything, because you tried.

Best wishes to you.

PG2018 · Sep 28, 2016

Yes, don't include job X on your resume. Leave job X before it poisons your marrow.