Irritated!! (Vent)

I feel your pain. When I was having issues similar to this, I just took a few minutes during a faculty meeting to talk with the teachers. I explained that I was the medical professional in the building and if I felt a student was well enough to go back to class, they should not challenge that. I also expalined that my job was to keep kids in school if possible and that every headache, stomachache or cough does not need to be sent home. I always tell them if the student appears worse, feel free to send them back for a re assesment. This really opened up the lines of communication. Unfortunately there is only one nurse and a whole lot of teachers so going to the principal may backfire on you. I hope everything works out....Have a better day :)

I understand completely! In fact this happened again yesterday to me. Teacher did not even send student to me, just called mom for pickup. The only reason I know is because I heard mom ranting in the hallway. I feel the same way you do..... if teachers can do this, then why am I here? It is totally disrespectful. Anyway, so far I have shut my mouth...... I'll keep you posted on what transpires today. Meanwhile, chin up and do your job. Don't let this teacher dictate how your day is going to go! :)

Happened to me yesterday. 3rd grade student comes in with a cough, no fever. She had a dose of Advil and went back to class. Teacher comes in a few minutes later (as I am cleaning up a bleeding student) with the nursing slip in hand and says "I don't mean to tell you how to do your job, but you need to call this students mother and tell her what is going on" I said I would be happy to call the mom when I had a free moment. 10 minutes later the student walks back in saying "my teacher says I need to go home and you need to call my mom". So I called mom, reported what happened over the last 15 minutes. Said that I thought the student was fine to return to class but her teacher has requested that I phone her. Of course the mom came right away to pick her up, but I was so mad at myself for caving in!!!

I refuse to excuse an absence/early dismissal in these situations, and I tell the parents so. Usually they are angry at the teacher for having them come to school when they are now going to have an unexcused absence. That usually cures the teachers of it :)

I refuse to release them if I have not assessed them as "ill" as well. I had a similar experience just 3 days ago. A young child that very frequently refuses to go to class on a GOOD day "threw up", (about a spoonful of mucus) and "refused to eat breakfast", as he is too "sick". The classroom aide convinced the child that he was sick, and needed to go home. The child refused to go to class at all. No fever, no further "vomiting", nothing that getting him out of a toxic home wouldn't fix. (tremendous turmoil in the family). Also, mother frequently gives his AM ADHD meds on an empty stomach. Since no one could get him to go to class, as he was convinced early on that he was too ill , he was sent home by the principal.

Of course, the next day, I found out that he had played outside all afternoon after getting home from school, and stayed home the next day, as well, because "you can't come back for 24 hours after vomiting". God forbid anyone should use any judgement on that one, LOL! I think that few school staffpersons recognize the "gut feeling" nurses usually have, and that it can usually be reliably trusted.

It seems that no matter how often I try to relay to staff that my job is to keep a child in school to learn, unless it is not safe for him to be here, they seem to believe that I am remiss or even cruel, for not sending children that THEY deem "too sick to be here" home. It is under the guise of their concern for the child, (as if I just don't care) but I suspect that their agendas are not always that simple.

Well, I at leaset I am not the only one!! It's definitely a difficult situation that we are put in. I love my administrators and have a great relationship with them. They back me on anything I want to do. I know the teacher backed the AP in to a corner... and he didn't have time to deal with the troubled 3rd grader b/c he was doing SOL's. It's my opinion that the AP SHOULD have backed me and stood firm. And any other time, I am sure he would have discussed it with me before leaving it in the teachers hands. School's almost out and I am just gonna bite my tongue for now. It is not something I will tolerate next year and will make it known when we all meet before kids come back to school. And I totally agree with you Artisyc1... the "gut feeling" that nurses have is completely overlooked by many. Some people you can't please!! Fortunately, 90% of the staff here are great and show me tons of respect. You will always have those few!!