Integrity vs job security

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I have been a nurse for over 10 years. Recently the long term care facility in which I work, caught media attention when a male employee was caught performing a sex act on a dementia patient. The police were called, and the worker was terminated and charged with sodomy. Long story short, the proper chain of commands were followed, BUT only once the big wigs of the hospital found out. The administrator and DON knew about the incident for hours, failed to contact police, and falsified witness statements, to try to cover it up. It all backfired, and they were found out. However, despite police knowing they lied to cover it up, and DHSS citing them with a level 1 notice for the attempt, they still hold their jobs. Needless to say, staff has had enough of the corruption, and have notified DHSS with other abuse situations that were covered up by them also. The family of this patient has been told the sugar coated version of story by administration. They have no idea that the administration team attempted to hide this, nor do they know the facility was cited for this. As a genuine nurse and mother, I feel the family needs to know the truth. Would it be out of line to reach out to them and direct them to the proper websites that show the state citation, so they know administration tried to cover up the rape of their loved one? Could doing such come back to ultimately bite the person that tells the family?

Specializes in retired LTC.

To OP - why is it that you believe that the family is UNAWARE of the total situation? Just because they haven't made a public showing of concern doesn't mean that they don't know what's going on in its entirety. Their legal counsel would most likely wisely advise them to avoid publicity.

You have NO IDEA of what's all going on behind their closed doors!!! You are NOT privy to all the family/legal interactions; that is NOT yours to know.

Please know that I am not heartless. My deepest sympathies go out to that family in their time of sadness, shock, indignation, etc. Coping is unique to each, but it is private. And you may have no idea how they are responding in the eyes of their God.

I do believe you may be overstepping the boundaries of personal involvement. It's like YOU are feeling the injury yourself and are expecting the family to be making a public display of outrage.

Also, the State Dept of Health, Ombudsman Office and law enforcement are most likely all over this case. Again, they don't have to tell you anything.

If you feel obligated that you have information you want to give to officials then do so. But be prepared for fallout. That's pretty much what respondents are trying to tell you. Also are you sure that your concern is for the family and not just some measure of dissatisfaction against your employer and about your job?

I love my job, and have a fantastic HR record. I have never had any issue in the 5 years I have been employed with the company. So to answer your question, no I am not an unhappy employee seeking revenge, or being spiteful. I took an oath as a nurse, to advocate for my patients. I am in the business of compassion, not corruption. It all boils down to morals and integrity as far as my argument is concerned. If it was my Grandma or any other family member, I would want to know. They should have the opportunity to know the truth, in order to protect their loved one and move them if they see fit. There has been no litigation involved, as of yet, concerning this matter. My goal is not to leave the job I love, or to cause drama. I simply want the trash taken out, to ensure my patients are being kept safe, and their rights preserved. If I get backlash because of that, then so be it. I will not back down or bend a knee to corrupt practices. It is counter productive for my license as well as other health care professionals employed here. The fact that people think that I should leave and let the problem persist to "keep my job," saddens me, and makes me lose a little more hope for my industry as a whole. Our number one priority should be patient safety, not a paycheck. This is more than just a job for me. I truly feel like I make a difference in people's lives, and I go to bed whole every night. Lastly, DHSS has been notified and legal counsel sought. Thank you everyone (with morals and hearts) for your input.

Specializes in OB-Gyn/Primary Care/Ambulatory Leadership.

You specifically asked if it could come back to bite you if you did this. People are simply answering the question YOU asked. Yes, you will likely lose your job.

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Our number one priority should be patient safety, not a paycheck.

And if the abuser were still employed there, and people were protecting him, our answers would be VASTLY different. Are the residents at this facility still being harmed? Or is the problem being dealt with?

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Thank you everyone (with morals and hearts) for your input.

Again, OFFS. You're being ridiculous.

NurseAnnBo said:
I have been a nurse for over 10 years. Recently the long term care facility in which I work, caught media attention when a male employee was caught performing a sex act on a dementia patient. The police were called, and the worker was terminated and charged with sodomy. Long story short, the proper chain of commands were followed, BUT only once the big wigs of the hospital found out. The administrator and DON knew about the incident for hours, failed to contact police, and falsified witness statements, to try to cover it up. It all backfired, and they were found out. However, despite police knowing they lied to cover it up, and DHSS citing them with a level 1 notice for the attempt, they still hold their jobs. Needless to say, staff has had enough of the corruption, and have notified DHSS with other abuse situations that were covered up by them also. The family of this patient has been told the sugar coated version of story by administration. They have no idea that the administration team attempted to hide this, nor do they know the facility was cited for this. As a genuine nurse and mother, I feel the family needs to know the truth. Would it be out of line to reach out to them and direct them to the proper websites that show the state citation, so they know administration tried to cover up the rape of their loved one? Could doing such come back to ultimately bite the person that tells the family?

That's terrible. I'm so sorry for her family.

What is it that you want to happen in this situation? Do you just want the family to know that a cover up was attempted? Or do you want those that tried to cover it up disciplined further?

I want the family to know that the cover up was attempted and that the facility was cited because of it. That is public information that they could access, if they knew it existed, which they don't. Then whatever happens, happens. Also let me add that this is not the first cover up regarding abuse, that they have been investigated for.

Specializes in retired LTC.

Back to my question - how do you know that the family DOESN'T know? Maybe they're just lying low like a lawyer would tell them.

I believe there is prob much, much more to the full picture that you're just not privy to.

NurseAnnBo said:
I want the family to know that the cover up was attempted and that the facility was cited because of it. That is public information that they could access, if they knew it existed, which they don't. Then whatever happens, happens. Also let me add that this is not the first cover up regarding abuse, that they have been investigated for.

If it was your loved one, would you want to know? I think that's what it would boil down to for me. I don't think there is a right or wrong answer here. But I do think that telling the family would indeed put your job at risk.

That said, that doesn't sound like a place I'd want to work. So it would be a rather easy decision for me.

Again, good luck.

So what happened? Also, why not just print the citation and put it in their mailbox in the middle of the night? Anonymity.

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