inappropriate comment made by RN in front of patient

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a few days ago i transferred a patient of mine to a different floor. she has end stage cancer, but is perfectly alert and stable - just in a lot of pain. anyway, when i got to the floor with the patient, i asked the desk secretary which nurse would be assigned to this patient. a nurse at the med cart (which was about 4 feet away from me and the patient) said something to the extent of "i guess i'm going to be the one stuck with her!"

I was really disgusted by this but didn't say anything. as i wheeled the patient to her room, she said something like "no one wants to take care of me?? i heard what she said." I made up some silly story about how she was joking and completed the transfer.

A part of me REALLY wanted to go back and say something, but i'm the "new nurse" so i'm not sure quite how I fit in with everyone else at this point. am i overreacting? should i say something? should i not? I was thinking of writing an anonymous letter, what do you all think I should do?

I agree that the nurse needed to be told immediately. I'm a big proponent of dealing with the person first, then going up the ladder if you don't get any satisfaction.

steph

Specializes in Cardiac Care.
That comment made my heart sink....

Ditto.

I am so sad for that patient.

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