I've worked a good number of pediatric private duty cases. Most of them have been older kids (teenagers). The parents spent a decent amount of time with the patients.
My current patient is 3. He's cute as can be. Dad spends no time at all with him unless a nurse calls off. Mom might spend 10 minutes per shift with him. I thought maybe it just happened on my shifts, but the other nurses say it's the same way with them. The kid starts making all kinds of noises when they cone into the room - as if he's begging for their attention.
For the life of me, I cannot wrap my mind around this. If he were mine, nurses or not, I would be reading to him, rocking him to sleep or just sitting and cuddling up with him. He's had private care since he was born (after a 6 month initial hospitalization), so it can't be that they feel uneasy around the nurses.
It's like taking care of him is a burden if a shift isn't covered. Dad doesn't work and Mom has a Mon-Fri 9 to 5 job.
I sit there at work missing my children so that I can take care of theirs. When I'm not at work, I spend every available moment with my kids.
Is it just this family? Is this normal?