Looking for advice on how to handle a situation. My MIL has been diagnosed with terminal cancer and my husband is looking ahead to when she is gone and his 86-year old father is alone (they live about an hour from us). My FIL can do his own ADLs at this point, but needs a walker, cannot ambulate very far without becoming fatigued, has a Hx of falls, and does not cook or clean d/t his wife doing it all for him these past 60 years. My husband asked me my thoughts on buying a new, bigger home and moving him in with us and our two sons when she passes. I understand my husband's devotion to his dad, but I am not crazy about this idea. I told him my concerns as a wife and my suggestions as a nurse, but I can see him shut down because I'm not agreeing with him. Bottom line: I don't want to be a 24-hour nurse and my husband doesn't want to accept that that's what I'll become because his dad's aging process is not going to suddenly reverse. Any suggestions or advice from others in a similar situation??