How to turn down an offer without burning the bridge?

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Specializes in public health.

I recently was offered a job at a rural place. After doing a lot of thinking and discussing with my family, I decided that I don't want to relocate to rural area for the job at this point of my life. (I admit the pay was also another reason). How do I tell the person who hired me in a professional way so I don't end up burning the bridge. Should I call or email or write a letter?

Also, I don't have any job lined up right now besides that offer. I am mainly looking for jobs in the city now. Would this not be a smart strategy?

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Did you already accept the offer? I would call and explain that you are not able to accept the offer at this time in your life because you have decided to not relocate. I know it is hard for new grads to get offers now and days but if relocating is holding you back from accepting this job offer then what else can you do but wait for another one closer to you. Good luck!

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Specializes in public health.

I haven't accepted the offer yet. I know the nursing director has always had a hard time recruiting nurses because it's a rural place. She has been turned down by applicants before so she told me she would leave the ball in my court after our last interview.

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I'm glad you were offered a position, but it is a tough decision you have to make. :( However, keep in mind that it could be a wonderful learning experience, and that there may be many positives to the position that you aren't aware of. However, you have to do what's best for you and your situation. If you do decline, I think it would be best to call the director to give her your answer. I think it is more personable. And, it sounds like she would be very understanding.

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