There was a colleague at work( who happens to be the team-leader) who was a little disrespectful. He called my name by shouting with an angry tone in his voice, several times.
Also in the same day, I asked him to do something and later when I asked him, he said he forgot.
And I heard him later criticizing me (unwarranted)with his friend who is also a colleague.
I did not talk to him after this. I did not even say hi to him. I ignored him and whenever I need something I walk by him and ask the person near to him, while ignoring him. Do men notice this behavior?
What would you you do if you were in my place?
I will see him tomorrow, I don't know, should I keep ignoring him completely?
I couldn't do it. Yesterday we talked to each other and our relationship is perfect now. We worked as partners and I enjoyed my day with him very much. He was kind and warm exceptionally. No serious talk happened.
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Hi guys,
There was a colleague at work( who happens to be the team-leader) who was a little disrespectful. He called my name by shouting with an angry tone in his voice, several times.
Also in the same day, I asked him to do something and later when I asked him, he said he forgot.
And I heard him later criticizing me (unwarranted)with his friend who is also a colleague.
I did not talk to him after this. I did not even say hi to him. I ignored him and whenever I need something I walk by him and ask the person near to him, while ignoring him. Do men notice this behavior?
What would you you do if you were in my place?
I will see him tomorrow, I don't know, should I keep ignoring him completely?
Your colleague was a little disrespectful, so you go out of your way to be childish, unprofessional and a LOT disrespectful to him? Way to go, girl. I'm sure you're going to have NO trouble becoming a valued member of the team.
Sarah2018, BSN, RN
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Thanks to everyone who shared their views.
All of you adviced me to go for confrontation.
I couldn't do it. Yesterday we talked to each other and our relationship is perfect now. We worked as partners and I enjoyed my day with him very much. He was kind and warm exceptionally. No serious talk happened.