New hospice patient discharged saturday from hospital, terminal ca with mets; can't make it to her md appointment today. Tried to set up a visit 9:30 this morning; hubby said "no, she has a md appt at 1:30, so we won't be back til after 5; give us a call then". Just got a call from MSW saying she spoke with hubby who said wife is more weak and won't make it to md appt today; so I called back; he said wife "just had a nausea pill and is lying down." he also said that kids and grandkids were "over all weekend, too loud and rambunctious for us all weekend." verbalized it was really too much on the patient.
Says give her 2 hours, call back at 3:30, if she is awake you can "make your visit then." Then he said "I thought they were going to give her 2 more rounds of chemo, but I guess they cant because she didn't go to her appointment today. Now when she was admitted on Saturday, we went all through the supportive care, no more treatment for cancer, just supportive/symptom control. Both she and her husband verbalized an understanding of this, at that time. I reiterated that Hospice is for "symptom control, to help her stay home as she wishes."
Another thing, we have this 8X11.5" sign that we place on the front of the hospice packet, and the front of the refrigerator for easy view, to call the HOSPICE FIRST for any problems. I reminded him that any nausea medication, etc would have been covered under the hospice benefit...
Anywhoo, now I'm wondering how much information he has retained. I know he is really worried about her, but I don't think he gets the purpose of hospice at this point. I went over everything, and gave him copies of everything.
We'll go more over everything today, should he let me come and see her...
What else can I do for them?
thanks for your input.
linda