I'm serious here and want to share a hunch and an LOL.
Did an admission visit on this fine Sunday morning for a man with whom I was familiar from a prior SNF job years ago. I remembered sort of joking around with him and he was always just shy of being inappropriately flirty and suggestive but not quite the dirty old man type. He would suggest me of his past and sexual laxity and personal history, I would shrug it off. He was never personally inappropriate so don't worry about that.
He has just been discharged yesterday from several months in SNF. He lives alone and does not have a SO. No girlfriend, just adult grown children. I sat in his home a small studio apartment which was quite disheveled from months of neglect. There were two TV's on, one pointed toward the bedroom area and blocking the view of that part of the space. The other was in the living room. Beneath the TV were many, many VHS and DVD's laying around including several obvious Media DVD's with let's just say, OBVIOUS titles and photos on the front. He apparently had not made any attempt to hide them (from me, or "his daughter":cool:). I noticed a woman's purse on the floor and did not comment on it. I also noticed his open wallet on the counter nearby and also of course, made no comment. I carried on with my professional visit.
At one point I heard a cough and rustling from the bedroom area. I asked him if there was someone there and he whispered that it was his daughter. She did not come out as I would expect most daughters to do, and participate in the visit and care of her "father". There was no further mention or discussion of her.
I highly suspect that after months in a SNF this guy had invited a booty call, possibly a paid one, as he denied having a SO. Just wanted to share some of the weird stuff we see in Home Health.