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What do you guys think of the term MURSE?
Personally I hate it. It sounds stupid, and is incredibly annoying. It designates some difference, obviously gender, but the name is immature and did I mention annoying?
Instead of nurse, lets use Furse and Murse
instead of cop, we'll use Mop, and Fop
Instead of Teacher, Feacher and Meacher
Instead of Doctor, Foctor and Moctor
The female nurses in my unit call me "Boss" or "sir" -- not because I have a member but because I am the manager (and perhaps because I treat everyone with dignity and respect and jump in to help when needed). One calls me Akalitis but that's because we both love the same TV show.
If the word "murse" was all I had trying to burrow under my skin, I would count myself very lucky indeed. If this really bothers you, talk to your buddies and come up with a clever deflection. Just please not "I got yer murse hanging right here." (remember your sexual harrassment training class please)
Full disclosure: My graduation "cap" had the word Murse stenciled on it. I own it, it doesn't own me. That makes it unsuitable for joking or worse because it doesn't bother me. Now if they start calling me Poo Guy again, I'm taking the gloves off!
To add some humor, I took a tactical-medic class (TCCC protocols) and one of the instructors instantly had a new nickname for me: Focker, I laugh about it, and Murse, only a few medics I work with will throw it out and say "oh he's a murse" but past that, no biggie.....it is what it is.....but here's my thought....could always be worse
I got "Murse-to-be" on my graduation cap. ^^ I think it's fun and I don't take things serious. But there was one time in nursing during my psycho rotation at this outpt clinic. A social worker there (who happened to be male) called me that and I soon realized he meant it as a derogatory term. Only 1 time tho. The rest of the time, most ppl I know think it's adorable. And I do own it!
being a male RN, I can't get offended by the term "murse." Its just not important enough. That, and I worked in an ED where it was about 50% male nurses, and we all joked around about everything with "mursing" being one of the common ones. Our patients enjoyed our commeraderie on the unit, which was partially brought about by our joking around with each other so much.
armyicurn
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As long as they do not call me Gaylord.....