Published Apr 8, 2009
ccjus123
169 Posts
I'm 31 years old, I already have a BA in another discipline. I have a husband who is also currently going to college for the first time (part-time, 2 classes/semester), he works full-time - he is going to school to be a physician assistant. I work full-time as a legal sec'y with plenty of time to study at my desk (I currently surf the net 85% of the day because of the lack of work - this is also the reason for my career change). We have 2 boys an 8 year old and a 4 year old.
I have about till the end of 2010 to finish my pre-reqs, then I'll be able to start my nursing courses/clinicals. I plan to enroll in a school that has an evening program. I will cut my hours at work to working 3 days a week (I would like to graduate with as little debt as possible). Once I'm finished and am finally working as an RN - my hubby will quit working (he has to because the last 2 years of his physician assistant program is rigorous and full-time study is needed) so that he can go full time and finish up. - I will be able to afford it working as an RN (we've lived on 1 income before when I stayed home with our kids when they were babies).
AM I CRAZY or is this doable? Anybody in a similar situation?
Your thoughts are appreciated...
-Cee Cee:wink2:
PacoUSA, BSN, RN
3,445 Posts
Anything is possible!
The fact that you have a PLAN is a plus on your end, stick to it and you would be fine. The most baffling part of your post is that you're a legal sec and you're not busy .. wow :)
Scooter5
88 Posts
It's very do-able, at least for me. I'm working full time and just finishing up my pre-reqs. When I start the Nursing courses (that is all that I have left) in the fall I will be working full time and doing an evening/weekend program. I'm busy, but not stressed out. Good Luck in you program!
The most baffling part of your post is that you're a legal sec and you're not busy .. wow
Yeah, the attorneys I work for are pretty efficient and do most of their own work. One time one of them apologized for giving me "too much work" because I had just come back from vacation - trust me what he gave me to do was hardly "too much"
And it's not just my area all of the secretaries are in the same predictament where I work - the difference between them & me is that lots of them have been there for 10, 15, & 20 years - and plan to retire there.
Not me!
I'm definitely going to utilize my spare time at work to study.
bananabubbletea
93 Posts
It is definitely doable. There are student families out there, wives who stay home with the kids and men who are in school and they live off financial aid/PT work salary. I know a handful of student families in this situation. They are happy, tightly budgeted but blessed. I think you will be fine.