Help - I am interested in nursing but worried about the level of respect

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I am a high school senior currently interested in pursuing nursing or at least another health care profession (such as speech therapy). I'm planning on trying to get my BSN in nursing. I will admit that because of my recent interest in nursing, I have learned a LOT about the career. Before, I wasn't even quite sure what nurses did; I knew the stereotypes, but I never actually thought about it. Now seeing how difficult it is to get into nursing school, the performance demanded by nursing students in order to get through school, the amount of hours put into becoming a nurse...it is a lot more training than the general public believes. Hell, I'm sure there's people out there that think becoming a nurse is easy.

And that's the problem. As awesome a job I think nursing is, and as much as I respect nurses for everything they do, I'm worried about how the general public perceives nursing. I read so much online about how nurses are disrespected, how people don't understand what nurses do, and how the media portrays nurses (i.e. either as hand maidens or naughty nurses). I probably won't be able to watch Scrubs anymore, one of my favorite shows, simply because of the way it tends to portray nursing! I'm very sensitive to this, especially because I can't stand people disrespecting me. I'm afraid that if I became a nurse, I wouldn't be able to just "shrug off" any disrespect I received from others for becoming a nurse. I'm afraid it would really get to me, hurt me, make me become defensive, or even make me switch to another job.

So I would really like to know what you nurses think. Do you often feel disrespected, or do you think nursing has a more positive image now? Do more people seem to understand how much work it takes to become, and be, a nurse?

Specializes in Certified Med/Surg tele, and other stuff.

Actually nurses are the most trusted profession in a poll that came out not too long ago. I notice that if I'm in the middle of something confrontational out of the work field, say dealing with a nasty salesperson, they seem to back off a bit, once they find out I'm a nurse. If I go into a store to pick up a few items and I'm in work attire, people will offer me to go ahead of them.

My family loves having a nurse in the house, as does my extended family and friends. My kids think I'm cool because I can start an IV, and can 'save lives'. Okay..the last coming from a six year old, but hey, I'll take what I can get.:cool:

I am a high school senior currently interested in pursuing nursing or at least another health care profession (such as speech therapy). I'm planning on trying to get my BSN in nursing. I will admit that because of my recent interest in nursing, I have learned a LOT about the career. Before, I wasn't even quite sure what nurses did; I knew the stereotypes, but I never actually thought about it. Now seeing how difficult it is to get into nursing school, the performance demanded by nursing students in order to get through school, the amount of hours put into becoming a nurse...it is a lot more training than the general public believes. Hell, I'm sure there's people out there that think becoming a nurse is easy.

And that's the problem. As awesome a job I think nursing is, and as much as I respect nurses for everything they do, I'm worried about how the general public perceives nursing. I read so much online about how nurses are disrespected, how people don't understand what nurses do, and how the media portrays nurses (i.e. either as hand maidens or naughty nurses). I probably won't be able to watch Scrubs anymore, one of my favorite shows, simply because of the way it tends to portray nursing! I'm very sensitive to this, especially because I can't stand people disrespecting me. I'm afraid that if I became a nurse, I wouldn't be able to just "shrug off" any disrespect I received from others for becoming a nurse. I'm afraid it would really get to me, hurt me, make me become defensive, or even make me switch to another job.

So I would really like to know what you nurses think. Do you often feel disrespected, or do you think nursing has a more positive image now? Do more people seem to understand how much work it takes to become, and be, a nurse?

Of course I feel disrespected OFTEN as a nurse. But I just try to remember that respect isn't going to pay my bills or buy me anything. that keeps me going

Specializes in LTC/Skilled Care/Rehab.

I feel like I am respected as a nurse most of the time. There are some families who like to complain and belittle people no matter who you are but if they think you know what you are doing, you will be respected. Most doctors really value our opinion. I work at a SNF (skilled nursing facility) and a lot of the time the doctors will ask our opinion about whether a patient should go out. You have to be confident in what you say and/or do.

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