Hello my name is.......and I am OBESE

Obesity what is it? Nurses General Nursing Article

When I googled the word obesity I was astonished to find that I had 156,002,803 results.

What is Obesity?

  • Wikipedia describes it as a medical condition in which excess body fat has accumulated to the extent that it may have an adverse effect on health, leading to reduced life expectancy and/or increased health problems.
  • The World Health Organization (WHO) describes obesity as abnormal or excessive fat accumulation that presents a risk to health. A crude population measure of obesity is the body mass index (BMI), a person's weight (in kilograms) divided by the square of his or her height (in metres). A person with a BMI of 30 or more is generally considered obese. A person with a BMI equal to or more than 25 is considered overweight.
There's even a society for Obesity: Home - The Obesity Society
Overweight and obesity are major risk factors for a number of chronic diseases, including diabetes, cardiovascular diseases and cancer. Once considered a problem only in high income countries, overweight and obesity are now dramatically on the rise in low- and middle-income countries, particularly in urban settings.

So my question is how does all this information help me?

  • I love eating ... there's no question and I love eating foods which are 'bad' for me ... I can't help it - they are delicious.
  • So why can't I stop eating?
  • Why can't I change my lifestyle?
  • How can I stop the delicious foods cravings?
  • And, I know that 95% of diets fail ... 1 in 20 dieters will succeed.

We discussed this at work recently and decided that you can do without cigarettes and drugs; and, you can freely move around in society without ever coming into contact with them.

Unfortunately, you cannot avoid food. You have to eat - there are no two ways around it!

In all societies, we eat food for pleasure! We have restaurants, weddings, christenings, birthday parties, July 4th parties ... you name it we have a party and it all includes FOOD. Our mouths drool at the thought of all the delicious food we are going to eat.

If the food is bad then we complain and moan, for days, weeks and even years. We remember.

If the food is good we compliment that person, party, or restaurant, for days, weeks and years. We return to good restaurants for ever or as long as the food is good.

So how is it possible to lose weight and stay slim?

We read about success stories in magazines, newspapers and television.

We the OB's have to stay away from food because we can diet, and we do diet a lot, but we can't stop returning to the food which pleasures us!

I diet one year - lose 30lbs easily. I am almost starved to death whilst I am losing it. Then one day my resolve is broken ... just one candy, just one or two chips, a small bite of the cookie or the cake, an extra serving of potato and WHAM I am right back to square one! Then I feel comforted inside - Oh boy the food I am missing tastes soooooooooooooo ... it is not in my imagination it is real!!

I love the feeling of being slim I really do it is great but the problem is I love food more. The 30lb's I lost is now 50 lbs gain. How did it happen? I really don't know but who cares ... who really cares ... only ME.

Everywhere I go there is food! It's on the TV, there are cooking programs which make food look so yummy, movies and tv shows have everybody eating, at work people are eating, machines give us food, free samples in supermarkets ... you name it there it is!

I can change my lifestyle but I love my lifestyle. That's where the problem lies-it's not against the law to eat! You don't beat people up, murder or cause fights and arguments in the home, it doesn't make you abuse children or women. It is socially acceptable to eat, food is sold everywhere-you don't have to go down a back alley to deal food.

Honestly, it frightens me that I am killing myself with my weight problems-but I am happy and contented as long as nobody takes my photo.

I really don't know anybody who has weight problems and has kept off the weight! Every single person I know replaces the lost weight within a couple of years and puts more on.

This is the area we have to look at, not how to diet because I am sure every single person who is overweight knows how to diet! The problem is keeping it off. Yes! You have to change your lifestyle but I think the problem is we like our lifestyle-to change it means we can't go out every week to eat or to people's houses for meals, or go to the food parties because Temptation is why we return to our bad eating habits! If we were strong willed we would all be a size 6-10 I guarantee that.

So to all the diet companies out there...

We all know how to diet! We have been on a diet and most of us still exercise. We don't eat more, we just can't stop the weight from piling on. We need more than just salads, chicken, or fish no carbs, no cakes, no chips, choc, or candy. Give us something that is close to what we normally eat - allow certain treats. It's by no means the answer but it can help those who stray from their diets.

I want to stop this yo yo diet

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The only diet that works is a change of life style. You might be able to loss weight and stay off in a few months. However, you will bounce back if you stop dieting. A recent research found women that are frequently on yo yo diet ( if they gain/lose more than 10 pound for 10 or more time in their adulthood) are 2.5 time more likely to get kidney cancer than those who have stable weight (even if they are overweight).

Yo Yo diet - How typical dieter failed to lose weight and became heavier in long term

Ah another thing I don't have a ton of sympathy for is people who just keep saying "this is too hard" or " I can't"

Friend of mine came to me crying yesterday because she put on another 3 pounds and has been struggling to lose weight for some months now. While I was trying to comfort her, she then told me, "This is too hard," and "I don't know if I want to do this. I don't know if its worth it."

I was able to give her a good pep talk about it and some advice, wheather she takes it or not is th question. I found it very frustrating to to encourage someone who doesn't want to make the change in themselves or the effort.

Another guy I deal with had been coming to the gym for a long time although he couldn't really work out much other than walk slow on the treadmill. He was in such bad shape that when I sent him to the doctor (because he needed a PARMED-X ) he couldn't complete the test without having chest problems. Eventually he was able to complete it after the put a catheter in his leg for his heart. He disappeared for several months and returned heavier, then disappeared again and got heavier again. Finally he came to me one day looking for sympathy, (his insulin wasn't working well and they had to keep switching it up because nothing would work well for long). I finally suggested that he get a gastric bypass. He told me the docs suggested it but he didn't think he wanted to do i t. I asked him why not and he said he didn't think he could stick to the diet. Again, why not? Because hes poor and cant afford the proper food. I was puzzled at this because the foodbank here will give people decent fairly clean food, and will specialize what they give people that have health conditions. I had also talked about his finances before and there was no reason why he couldn't afford to fix himself some proper food. I asked him, what exactly is it that he has to be eating? (Maybe there was something I didn't know about). Oh, he didn't know what was in the diet. I said to him, you can come to the gym and do all the walking and stretching you want, you will NOT lose weight. Even if you stayed on he treadmill all day you will NOT lose weight. But if you changed you diet, even for one week (for a man of his size) I guarantee, swear and promise he would drop weight and feel much better. He said he would come in to do stretches more. I said that will not help him lose weight. Then he said "well I'll do men best"... ARRRRRRG!!! I wanted to say " Your best clearly sucks!" I gave up trying to help him. (Did I mentioned I saw him a few times outside of work and would see him buying burgers and onion rings, chips and pop?)

Why won't people take ownership and responsibility????????!!!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

A message to those that "Can't do it" Your excuses have an expirey date.

Either be satisfied with how you are as you are (and don't start complaining of how crappy you feel neither!) and eat everything you love till your hearts content (or bursts) , or educate yourself and make some changes and get some help.

For those that are finding it difficult but still make the effort, my heart goes out to you BIG BIG HUGZZZZ and thank you for being strong. Keep it up you will make it!

Specializes in Med/Surg, DSU, Ortho, Onc, Psych.
I have noticed a change from overeating that was easy to deal with to a compulsion to eat that seems physiological in nature. I suspect that I have crossed the line to diabetes. About six nights ago I kept tossing and turning and waking up the entire night with an insatiable urge to not only drink something, but it had to be sweet. I actually got up at 1:30 am and went to the soda machines in the building after I had hunted down every container that might have something sweet to drink in it. Not a happy camper about this at all.

Calioter, did u ever get tested for this at all? Just curious.

Understanding obesity is something not everyone can relate to .

nice article..