Sorry for the super long post, but I tried to cover everything that would probably get asked in the comments. I'm sure I've missed something though LOL .
I've been a home health nurse for six years now. I am paid per visit, so I don't work assigned shifts, I just get assigned patients and I work out my schedule with them. A couple of years ago I was assigned some patients at an assisted living facility, Some of them needed daily visits because they cannot self administer insulin or other medications, some wound care, basic stuff. I've built up a good rapport with the administrator, the doctors who see patients at this facility, and the staff. So the home health agency designated this as my facility where all of the patients would be assigned to me. Visits were needed seven days a week, And one patient needed b.i.d. visits, so there was no way I could work seven days a week morning and evening. I couldn't find any other nurses at my home health agency who could help out since most of them live on the other side of town. I brought in a friend of mine who I went to nursing school with who could use some extra money and lives very close to the facility. At the time she was working per diem at a hospital. I mostly asked her to cover the majority of weekends and some evenings, since she doesn't have kids it worked out well for both of us.
Fast forward to now: gradually over time She started to see the weekend and evening visits as hers And would count on the income instead of being a fill-in for me. If she went on vacation or went out of town she considered that I was covering her visits, and would want me to switch visits with her on other days so that she could keep her income steady, even though I was available to do those visits and did not need them covered. I did not expect her to be available every time I needed coverage, but she was JUST supposed to be coverage for this facility. When new patients would get assigned to our home health from the facility she would ask who was supposed to see that patient, As if we were both covering the facility, rather than her filling in for times that I could not come. You get the point.
She does also see other patients for this home health, and if she does occasionally ask me to cover for her, she knows that they are still her patients and that I'm only covering while she's out of town, so I know that she understands how it works.
Now it has gotten to the point where the facility is so busy, that instead of driving all over town and putting hundreds of miles on my car per day and spending lots of time on the road, I could actually make a full-time income just by going to this facility twice daily. It would be a fantastic opportunity for me to finish school, and work on a side business that I'm starting. Opportunities like this don't come along very often. And I worked hard to build up the good reputation we have at this facility. I am the one who is there for the daytime visits with the administrator and the main med tech, they hardly know the other nurse, one of them actually doesn't even know her name after two years. She's Does her job fine, she's just not as visible to them partially because of the times that she's there and partially because she is really quiet and just hasn't been focused on building the relationship up.
So my dilemma is that I want to take back the reins on this facility, but it may be too late to do that without ruining the friendship, and I am concerned that if she gets mad about it she may not want to do coverage for this facility at all, which I still would need. I don't even know if she still working at the hospital part time. She definitely considers that the evenings and weekends are her visits, the idea that I've brought her in to the company in the first place to Provide back-up is long gone in her mind. And I don't want to put her in a position where she has a huge loss of income. But, the home health agency can assign her more patients. And I am a working mom, she does not have kids and she does still live at home with her parents so she is not going to be homeless without the income. And then, if she does get really mad and does not want to work with me at all anymore, not only do I lose a friend, but then I also have the dilemma of possibly having to work seven days a week twice a day without ever being able to take a day off if I can't find coverage. And we have a camping trip coming up in April.
So, What would you do in this case?