Got the job only because of who you know?

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I'm curious to know your thoughts.

I'm a second career nurse, and, in business it is often about who you know. But, even though there is some animosity, it usually wanes as this is how it goes. Those who didn't know "people" just figured it was time to network for the future jobs they want.

Well, I know a few nurses who fall into the catagory of getting their first nursing jobs ONLY because of who they know. There is nothing they have/had to set them apart from even better qualified applicants, except, for who they know. Whether it be a well known doc, or even political contact in the city government, or hiring manager. Some had a job created for them when no other NGs were being hired (except maybe other nurses with VIP connections). They are just thankful and intend to work their behinds off to prove they were worthy hires. But now, I am wondering if they've been found out and are now suffering for the way they got their jobs.

Just recently I've spoken with someone that fits this bill, and realized that now, all of the people I know to have got a job in this way are now having an awful time of it. No bullying at first, but later on, like 4-6 months out. And, the bullying is often from the NMs or charges. This isn't simple stuff, it's the scary kind the lawsuit-lose your license level stuff. The I will force you into something pretty serious and because you are a new nurse you will get stuck in it, stuff. Now I do know these people and they are not incompetent. Their stories are very similar, and other nurses around them notice that there seems to suddenly be a target on their backs.

I can't help but think that some of these NMs having been forced to hire someone, might be angry about it so much that they do their best to get rid of that person, whether they turn out a good nurse or not. I'd elaborate, with some of what's happened but, I don't want to make things worse.

I myself has been a victim of this. We have a hospital here in town. And i have put apps in. I have seen my Co-Workers time and again get hired because of who they knew in the hospital. I'm a transplant and where i live and no matter what i will always be an outsider. And they ask you in the interview so what high school did you go to. And if your honest like me you would say i grew up and went to school in Calif. They say wow what brought you out here? So then you tell them. See they may seem interested but really what they are really thinking is he didn't grow up here. Then you notice a co-worker get a interview and get hired the same week. Also i have known people let go because of someones Nephew or Niece needing a job.

Is it right no Is it fair No not at all. It happens and it happens often. You might not notice it that much in a big city compared to a small rural town. It's just one of the reason's why i quit nursing. And someone on this post said it's networking. That to me is not networking.

I even knew someone who got in to LPN Nursing School because her aunt was a teacher at the college. I got to tell you knowing the girl and knowing her test scores and her bragging how she got in in because of her aunt being a teacher there kinda turned me stomach. I think she scored a 76 in over all. Knowing that someone might of scored better then her in all subjects got ripped off getting in to nursing school because someone knew someone is wrong. But hey you be a judge. I guess if you know people you know people but how about trying for a job on level playing field. These are my thoughts use them as you wish

Specializes in ICU/CCU, Med Surg.

I used my connection with a large hospital in my area to get an interview for an ED internship; the interview was difficult and I completely blew it...but I'm grateful just for the chance to interview, which I probably wouldn't have gotten without that connection (I'm a new grad).

But I sometimes wonder if I really wasn't a good fit or if they made the interview more difficult because they knew about my connection...either way, it didn't work out. Have to admit, I'm totally embarrassed.

AHHH yes "It's not what you know but who YOU KNOW" lives strong and proud in the nursing world I see! As a new BSN graduate I am having a hard time finding a job on my own merits and frankly it sucks. While going to school I worked part-time (still do) for a doctor who now has been offering to introduce me to the president of my local hospital (the hospital is an Adventist hospital and my boss and this president are church buddies) at this very same hospital I have a handful of family members who work in different areas and I have not resorted to asking them to get me in nor have I accepted the offer from my boss (which by the way wanted me to attend church with her in order to meet this hospital president). Attending church isn't the problem but I'm not adventist. Having spoken to friends they tell me I have to take up the offer if I want a nursing job because our state just does not have enough opportunities for new graduates. I am confident in my skills and know I will be a benefit to any hospital who will have me and I don't want people thinking the opposite if I get a job because I knew someone. Sooo I continue to fill out online apps and even apply for lesser positions in order to "get-in" stay tuned!

I think it has always been about connection and proving yourself. Now that jobs are scarce the connection comes first. If you have someone backing you, a manager is more likely to go and pull up your application instead of weeding through hundreds of applicants. If you had to interview 50 people for 2 positions, i thin we'd all start to find ways to cut people out. I am a new grad looking for work, first i was angry then i started volunteering and letting everyone know my situation. You never know who will pick up your application, who you'll run into during an interview. I have now accepted the system and mean to us it for myself. Part of working is your team members and nursing is harder with the cliquey BS and i truly wouldn't want to be their if they didn't want me. But if someone offers me a job and i accept and i get backed into a corner, they are officially messing with my paycheck and license. I have seen people fight back and most of the time they lose, but everyone involved learns a lesson from it.

I myself has been a victim of this. We have a hospital here in town. And i have put apps in. I have seen my Co-Workers time and again get hired because of who they knew in the hospital. I'm a transplant and where i live and no matter what i will always be an outsider. And they ask you in the interview so what high school did you go to. And if your honest like me you would say i grew up and went to school in Calif. They say wow what brought you out here? So then you tell them. See they may seem interested but really what they are really thinking is he didn't grow up here. Then you notice a co-worker get a interview and get hired the same week. Also i have known people let go because of someones Nephew or Niece needing a job.

Is it right no Is it fair No not at all. It happens and it happens often. You might not notice it that much in a big city compared to a small rural town. It's just one of the reason's why i quit nursing. And someone on this post said it's networking. That to me is not networking.

I even knew someone who got in to LPN Nursing School because her aunt was a teacher at the college. I got to tell you knowing the girl and knowing her test scores and her bragging how she got in in because of her aunt being a teacher there kinda turned me stomach. I think she scored a 76 in over all. Knowing that someone might of scored better then her in all subjects got ripped off getting in to nursing school because someone knew someone is wrong. But hey you be a judge. I guess if you know people you know people but how about trying for a job on level playing field. These are my thoughts use them as you wish

This has nothing to do with networking but small town BS, and when a patient is harmed or dies those people they are related to or know suddenly disappear.

Specializes in ICU, ER.

At one of the hospitals I worked at, many of my family members also worked there and once people started to find out who I was by seeing me with them or hearing me call them "Mom" or "Aunt/Uncle so & so", I was bullied by tons of nurses who said things about me getting the job I did because of who I was related to. In reality, NO ONE in HR/management knew who I was related to and I purposely only used my married name on my resume and any documentation because I was afraid people would judge me based on that whether it be good or bad. There was another girl I worked with whose parents worked at the hospital as well and I remember one nurse scoffing and saying "Are they ONLY hiring relatives of staff now??"

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