Hey guys,
I’m in my 1st semester of a RN diploma program. I just can’t seem to do well in clinicals. I can do the 8.5hr lectures, I can study 4-6hrs a day, I can do all the skills in lab, I’ve even learned to survive on 4hrs of sleep a night, but I suck at clinicals. I get on the floor and I’m so nervous I think I could almost puke. I was so confident of myself before I went into this but then I met my clinical instructor. She has this thing w/ my age. She goes on these 5-10min lectures to my whole clinical group about how “19 and 20yr olds aren’t mature enough or responsible enough to be nurses” and about how my generation “has everything handed to them and they still are a bunch of screw-ups.” She is constantly singling me out in my group. It doesn’t help that the other students in my group are a good 7-10+ years older than me and I’m one of the younger ones in the entire program. I thought she might leave me alone after I could answer her questions and prove myself. But I can’t seem to prove myself on the floor. I can answer all the theory questions, but I can’t interact w/ patients. I get in the room w/ them and I feel like I’m ready to throw-up everywhere. I get so nervous and anxious w/ them. I have no previous health care experiences at all, but I’ve been working in food service since I was 16 so I know how to talk w/ strangers. I’m used to meeting people and talking w/ them, but patients are different. I’m on the oncology floor and something happens when I walk in there. The patients look like they’re in so much pain and anguish and I stand there and feel so helpless. I can’t answer any of their questions…not even the simple ones. I can’t make them hurt less and I can’t find a way to relate to them. I am so nervous with them and I don’t know why. I’ve tried to calm myself down, all the deep breathing exercises and count to ten things, but it doesn’t work. I fumble around w/ my stethoscope and try to hear their blood pressures, but I just end up messing it up because I’m so nervous. It doesn’t make any sense because I’m usually bubbly and upbeat w/ strangers. My clinical instructor doesn’t help me at all. She just yells at me for everything I do. Yesterday I asked her for help because I couldn’t hear a BP and she told me “You’re not a competent student nurse, therefore, I’ll have to fail you because you can’t perform simple tasks.” I just learned how to do BPs on Thursday. I feel like I’m sinking horribly in clinicals. I’ve worked so hard to get into this program and I’ve already sacrificed more than I thought I ever would to be here. But I honestly don’t see how I’ll make it the rest of the semester in clinical. I got into nursing because I’ve wanted to work in the NICU since I can remember, but now I’m wondering if I’ve made another huge mistake. Maybe she was right…maybe I am too young to be a good nurse…maybe I can’t handle it. But now I need some help figuring out if I can ever be a good RN or if I should let go of this before I get even deeper over my head…