hey Mandilynne...first off CONGRATS.......(unexpected surprises are usually the best
) I personally started college when my first one was 1 1/2yo....doing pre-req's......got pregnant again before she was 2yo.....then I had a 2 1/2yo and newborn (still doing pre-reqs) I continued to go to college, but only did one class at a time and took off summer semester....by the time I graduated my children were almost 7yo and 5yo. Yes it took over a span of 6yrs and was not easy...(most of the time I was in the nursing program my husband long hauled on a 18 wheeler and was only home on the weekends) I thankfully had a wonderful, terrific, trustworthy babysitter who without her I don't know if I could have done it...I had to take my kids to her at 0430-0500 on my clinical days and she would have to put the oldest on the bus for me....my husband though was extremely supportive the entire time and without him I could not have done it either.
What I am trying to say is that it can be done...maybe not in the timeframe most would do it, but it can! I did it the way I did b/c I wanted to be a mom..I was basically only away for 2hrs on class days.
It is HARD..no way around it, but you can do it if you want it bad enough and not take away from you little one, your teenagers should be able to help out some too while you go to school
Whatever you decide at this time..don't give up on your dream
Good Luck and have a healthy, happy, beautiful BABY!!!