I was just frowned upon by an old classmate

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I was just frowned upon by an old classmate. this is a long one so getready. in high school i wasnt a very serious student, i barely went to school, and barely graduated on time. anyway i am at k-mart when i run into an old classmated from high school. we talk then she asks me what am i in school for i say nursing she says" oh that fits you (with a laugh) why don't you go all the way, your smart enough, im sure" i wanted to hit her. mind youshe brags about being at the school i cant wait to attend.she isa pre med student and had the nerve to look down on me. i wanted to go off and tell her how important nursing is and how smart and dedicated you have to be, and also how i felt about her comment. instead i said oh i hope you make it as a doctor congradulations and good luck! i felt as though she wanted me to react differently because she tried to put me down in a good way, but she didnt. she wanted me to say " oh my G.P.A. is so and so, blah, blah, blah, she wanted me to get offended and argue, instead i showed her who was the intelligent and mature one. i didnt need to brag to her or tell her all my business just because she wanted to hear it. i know that i my heart i am satisfied with the career path that i choose and i really don't care if she or anyone else is gonna look down on me. i feel as thoughn i set her sraight by being civil. would you all have acted differently?

Specializes in CCU/ER.

You go Girl!!!

I'm impressed! It sounds like she is still acting like this is high school! You sound like you acted like the adult!

Many people have asked me the same thing about, "going all the way," My answer? "I AM going all the way! All the way to being the best nurse I can be so I can be the one who truly influences a patient and their family's life for good. You can have a terrific Dr or an awful Dr. and not really remember them, but if your nurse knows what he/she's doing, you'll never forget him/her and you'll live to remember him/her!"

Keep up the good work! And remember what so many here have said about how important we are as nurses!

Misty

Way to go and just remember, in nursing, you can go home and have a life which is not medicine. Most physicians are married to a beeper which is why many people choose nursing over becomming a physician. Physicinas need someone to carry out their orders and also someone to correct their mistakes and give them input on a person that you may spend 12 hours with as apposed to their 5 minutes. You were the better person and keep your head up.

Saw her @ KMart ya say? oh my, such a superior person was seen in such an average store?-gaspz-.....))))))) Clean Up On Isle 3(((((((( ...hehe

You did the right thing sweetie :)...would depend on what mood I was in at the time as to my reaction..lawdy help her if I were PMS'n ;)

My, My, My, Such restraint! And SUCH class!!!

wow!!!!!

Excellent response.

Hellllllonurse has an excellent response.

We ARE seeing what happens in hospitals as there are fewer nurses and more MD's (increased incidence of infection, increased medication errors, etc)

It's always after a confrontation like this that you think of the right thing to say. To prepare yourself for next time:

Read the U.K. nursing journals or visit their websites. Find out about Dr. Beverly Malone R.N., PhD. She is an African-American nurse with quite a distinguished career in this country (educator, researcher, published, past president of ANA, etc). The Royal College of Nursing recruited her to help them now.

"Yes, I will be going 'all the way'. Nursing is my chosen profession."

I once had a similar experience. My response: I chose and continue to choose Nursing. I'd rather die poor and famous like Teresa of Calcutta than rich and famous like you!

Just my opinion, Edward, IL

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