Quote from Kathleen Robledo
I listened to my grandmother tell me about that day. Doubt you might, but it happened. She said that they were on campus, but not responding. Probably doing their worship. It may have been 90 years, but it was 60 years of dealing with the tragedy, providing care, and whatching what could have been a productive life, being basically thrown away. Look up your history of treatment. Don't continue to keep your head in the sand. So some nurses and doctors didn't go to Hell, while my grandmother and father entered their own special hell that day and days to come. Your god is an unjust god, if one believes as the SDAs do.
I have no doubt your grandmother felt distressed and highly abandoned by the staff that day. However emotion also clouds memory and distress alters perception. All I ask you to consider is that your grandmother's truth and experience of that day may not match "the facts" that an objective non-involved observer of that day would find.
As you state, it has been over 90 years. It is clear you and your family have suffered with this for a long time. But I truly wonder what it is you seek now? None of us were there 95 years ago. And medical care has change substantially in many, many different ways since that time. None of us can say if the care your grandmother and uncle recieve were typical and standard of the time, or if more happened. We simply do not have the factual information to go back and conduct a systems analysis of the event.
As myself and many others have pointed out, many hospitals are run by religious organizations (for reference 63% of hospital based care in my state is from an religious organization), this does not mean that the hospitals complete shut down for religious services. Hospitals are a 24/7 operation and provide care continuously.
The degree of suffering and anger you are feeling over this event, one which occurred before you were born, seems misplaced. Is there something else going on in your life now that has re-awoken this old family hurt? Have you had a more recent run-in with a SDA organization that has left you feeling unheard? What is it you are needing that is leading you to post this story online for us now? There is nothing constructive any of us can do to address what happened nearly a hundred years ago. However if you share your need, what it is you hope to accomplish or what it is you are looking for, perhaps that can be met.