Most RN's first borns?

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Hi everybody,

I have a question and PLEASE dont anybody blast me for typecasting, this was not MY statement, it was a LCSW I was friends with. She claims that a huge % of nurses are first born females of alcoholic fathers. Something to do with the fact that as the first born in dysfunction family of origin you are a caregiver from the get-go. Now my father was not an alcoholic, but I am a first born. I was wondering how many of us are first-borns. (Also, she said this to me a long time ago, and I have lost touch with her, so I cannot ask her where the heck she got her information was) I was just starting school at the time and didnt really fight with her about it, just kind of gave her one of the Hmmm, thats an interesting opinion.... answers. Also, she meant it as a compliment, that we take a difficult beginning and build on our strengths and turn them into a career.

So, how many first borns are out there?

KristyBRN

Specializes in CCU, SICU, CVSICU, Precepting & Teaching.

i'm the oldest, dh is 3rd of 5, my sister is youngest and my ex-hubby was 2 of 4.

Specializes in Cardiac.

wow... My mom (an LPN) was first born and had an alcoholic father. My biological father is an alcoholic. Both my mom & stepdad are recovered alcoholics. I'm first born and start my RN program in week and a half.

Weird stat... :)

Specializes in school nursing,cardiology,and mental hea.

First born,ETHOL abusive father.Thats me.

Specializes in ER, ICU, Nurse Manager.

First born with ETOH father, but did not grow up with him, and female.

1st born of 1st born parents-mom's father alcololic. dysfunctional family-emotional abuse. makes perfect sense especially about "servitude"

Specializes in Orthopedics/Med-Surg, LDRP.

An only child, so I guess that does make me 1st born. No alcoholism in my parents. My aunt was an alcoholic, but my parents pretty much kept me away from her for the most part. I was, however, a latch-key kid starting at the age of 6 or 7 and felt like I raised myself to work-a-holic parents.

Specializes in Neuro Surgery,telemetry.

i am first born too! oh my:) my father is a military officer, mom is a teacher, lil bro is an electrical engr, lil sister is a lawyer...

#4 of 4..alcoholic/abusive father, tho

Specializes in Onc/Neuro/Med-Surg.

Yes my dad did have a drinking problem (rest in peace)

There are 6 of us: #1 my sis is an LPN

#6 is me, an RN

My cousins dad is a drinker too and the 1st and 2nd born are LPN's.

Specializes in med-surg OB.

second girl born etoh with dad yes maternal g'ma was also a nurse

My sister is the firstborn.... she is an RN...

My dad never touches the stuff...

I'm number two and going to school for my ADN....

Specializes in School Nursing.

first born female. I had a great dad though.

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